Is it normal that sometimes I feel like I don't fit in with the IIN?

For me, fitting in is more of a feeling. I probably look like I fit in alright here, I talk to some users, I make posts, and comment, etc. But it doesn't always feel like I'm involved to me. I feel like a part of it right now, though, which I like. Anyway, maybe you're the same. You're contributing by the sounds of it. I don't know who you are, but I'd be surprised if others didn't notice you being here. I appreciate a lot of the users I've said virtually nothing to.

If it's a matter of feeling like your personality doesn't match, then I understand that too. Although, one of the things I love about this place is that there are lots of users who I have stuff in common with. It's a shame you feel that way. It might just need a bit of time, though. I know that's the case for a few. After taking a break, it takes me ages to feel like a part of it again, not sure if that shows. Maybe you just need to change your outlook on how you fit in here. Like I said, chances are, someone's noticed you.:)