Is it normal That sometimes I don't want to be bi?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    10 years ago | pl

    "I can't help but feel that because I'm bi, not gay, I'm not as good as my gay friends. "

    In my opinion, this is one of the side effects of the "it's genetics!" movement. not so much that they put you down for being different but that... the label matters more than your personal choice.

    and it brings up another point - just because someone engages in an alternative lifestyle doesn't mean they can't be judgmental.

    If they refuse to be tolerant of your choices, then they're not worth associating with.

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    • ETCR
      10 years ago | pl

      Being bisexual isn't my choice. If it was I would change it :/

      My gay friends aren't judgemental at all. I'm just insecure I suppose.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
        10 years ago | pl

        yet you feel like an outsider you said, that you're not good enough for not being completely gay like them.

        Perhaps that's something to think on?

        of course the other factor is... whether you feel it's choice or genetics that force you into a group... you still have the ability to choose whom to have sex with.

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        • ETCR
          10 years ago | pl

          I could change my sexual behaviour, but I'd still be bisexual. I'd still feel bisexual.

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