While I am still a young fellow and haven't yet had as much experience relationship-wise as is expected of a man my age, I most definitely can speak of addiction, for someone in my circle has been through the hells of the drug underworld. You cannot change your guy, he won't change unless he wants to himself. Ultimatums hardly ever work and the efficiency of one hinges entirely on the receiving end. I did that with my last guy and, I tell you, my little friend, it did not work out so well. He also slept with a girl, which personally I find an appalling idea. Regardless, his sleeping with someone else once, while broken-up, should be irrelevant to your decision in being with him. The drug use is a tragically more serious matter. Good riddance, youngling. May you take the road that leads you to complete happiness.
Is it normal that someone can change?
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While I am still a young fellow and haven't yet had as much experience relationship-wise as is expected of a man my age, I most definitely can speak of addiction, for someone in my circle has been through the hells of the drug underworld. You cannot change your guy, he won't change unless he wants to himself. Ultimatums hardly ever work and the efficiency of one hinges entirely on the receiving end. I did that with my last guy and, I tell you, my little friend, it did not work out so well. He also slept with a girl, which personally I find an appalling idea. Regardless, his sleeping with someone else once, while broken-up, should be irrelevant to your decision in being with him. The drug use is a tragically more serious matter. Good riddance, youngling. May you take the road that leads you to complete happiness.