You kicked him out of the house and ended the relationship, for whatever reason, so how can you possibly think his sleeping with this other girl was him "doing this to me"?
You weren't a couple so you had no say in the matter.
The fact that you took him back and the relationship is (apparently) OK, seems a bit different, in actuality, from your post.
Either you are going to have to accept the FACT that he didn't really cheat on you, or you are going to have to get over that it happened at all, or send him packing again, because your doubts and feelings are going to eat away at the new relationship.
I don't see him as the problem. I think you are not accepting YOUR responsibility for your part in the whole mess.
I kicked him out not cause I didn't love him anymore and wanted to end it I kicked him out cause I found out he was using drugs!! That's was kinda just to make him think it's either drugs or me!
Is it normal that someone can change?
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You kicked him out of the house and ended the relationship, for whatever reason, so how can you possibly think his sleeping with this other girl was him "doing this to me"?
You weren't a couple so you had no say in the matter.
The fact that you took him back and the relationship is (apparently) OK, seems a bit different, in actuality, from your post.
Either you are going to have to accept the FACT that he didn't really cheat on you, or you are going to have to get over that it happened at all, or send him packing again, because your doubts and feelings are going to eat away at the new relationship.
I don't see him as the problem. I think you are not accepting YOUR responsibility for your part in the whole mess.
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I kicked him out not cause I didn't love him anymore and wanted to end it I kicked him out cause I found out he was using drugs!! That's was kinda just to make him think it's either drugs or me!