Is it normal that she doesn't give or recieve orally

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I've been with my girlfriend for 5&1/2 years. Prior to getting with her I enjoyed getting and recieving oral pleasure in abundance. She doesn't like it at all to the point where she says that it's nasty. Sex with her is so hot that it's the best I've ever had but I miss everything about oral pleasure! It's been almost six years and I find myself wanting it more than ever. I know that there are some women who may not like giving it but not recieving it too?. Not boasting but I am very talented and feel like she is missing out! My question is: Is it Normal for a female to not like recieving oral sex?

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  • MrPearl8
    11 years ago | pl

    Last night we talked about it again at length and she said that she had been talking to her girlfriends about it. She said one of them told her.. she was F**king crazy and that she was going to loose me if she didn't let me have my way & that if she don't that someone else will. She said they got very descriptive about how it feels & that one of them joked about letting me do her so she can judge if I know what I'm doing. I laughed and asked her who said that? So when she left for work this morning she had a HUGE smile on her face when she winked & said before leaving "no kids tonite" so I guess my tongue will have it's way. We'll see.

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago | pl

    normal, yes. would be my gf? no.

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  • derpyderp
    12 years ago | pl

    It is normal but as mentioned is normally about the girls insecurities.
    After 6 years you two should be REALLY comfortable with each other...
    Tell her it turns you on & try to (gently) coax out of her what she doesn't like about it.
    I'm sure if she relaxed & let you at it she'd love it. Had a girl tell me once she hated getting fingered, she let me at it once, to "shut me up", & squealed like a banshee the whole time. Another girl disliked getting oral but after I made her feel comfortable enough she loved it.
    Best thing to do is talk & be sensitive

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Maybe she doesn't feel comfortable about her vagina? Maybe she thinks she has a weird odour or maybe she doesn't like the look and doesn't want you to put your tongue there?

    You should talk to her about it. Tell her how much you'd love to give her oral sex, that you'd love to please her. Or course, don't force it but just say how you feel about it. Maybe she will give you a chance. I hope she will give you the chance and love it after.

    I'd be a sad panda if I had a girlfriend that wouldn't want to receive oral sex. Giving oral sex to my partner is one of the biggest turn ons to me.

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  • Ramit10
    12 years ago | pl

    If you 2 have never tried it then tell her to give it one time and just that you have needs just like her and you like to receive as well as give and the worst that can happen is she tells you to stop.

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    • MrPearl8
      12 years ago | pl

      @Ramit10.. I tried that and every now a then I still try it and just as she did and said the first time. She tenses up as if something is wrong yet have a smile on her face like she likes it. Then she'd say "stop it..it tickles..I can't takes it". I'll tell her to just relax and she'll say in one breath "OK..NO stop".
      Lately I find myself flirting more than I normally would but I don't want to leave or hurt her.

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