I suppose so, but to me it's still a spectrum because you can varying degrees of anything. Bi people almost always prefer one gender, and straight people have different ideas of being straight (as in my earlier example of me and my husband - I have actually slept with women in the past and enjoyed it, although nowhere near as much as with a man, where as he would never be able to sleep with a man because he wouldn't get hard because there would be zero attraction).
But I take your point because an awful lot of people are straight, in one way or another. I guess it just depends how you look at it.
But I do 100% agree with you that not everyone is secretly gay or bi, and it is annoying when gay and bisexual people insist that they are. It's shockingly narrow minded to assume that your own experience of sexuality is exactly what everyone else experiences, especially when you look at the stats of how many straight people there are in the world.
It really comes down to how complicated you want to make sexuality, and I say the less complicated the better. We need to know what chromosomes and hardware you have and which ones you have a noteable desire to have sex with, and thats all we need to know. The simpler we keep sexual identification and orientation the better. In my opinion of course!
And boy am I glad you don't think everyone is secretly bi! We sure do agree on this bit.
Is it normal that random women want to give me their numbers?
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I suppose so, but to me it's still a spectrum because you can varying degrees of anything. Bi people almost always prefer one gender, and straight people have different ideas of being straight (as in my earlier example of me and my husband - I have actually slept with women in the past and enjoyed it, although nowhere near as much as with a man, where as he would never be able to sleep with a man because he wouldn't get hard because there would be zero attraction).
But I take your point because an awful lot of people are straight, in one way or another. I guess it just depends how you look at it.
But I do 100% agree with you that not everyone is secretly gay or bi, and it is annoying when gay and bisexual people insist that they are. It's shockingly narrow minded to assume that your own experience of sexuality is exactly what everyone else experiences, especially when you look at the stats of how many straight people there are in the world.
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It really comes down to how complicated you want to make sexuality, and I say the less complicated the better. We need to know what chromosomes and hardware you have and which ones you have a noteable desire to have sex with, and thats all we need to know. The simpler we keep sexual identification and orientation the better. In my opinion of course!
And boy am I glad you don't think everyone is secretly bi! We sure do agree on this bit.