The sex isn't fun anymore though. It hasn't been for a while. We'll try to spice it up every now and then, maybe have drinks before, she'll wear lingerie, etc. But the biggest problem is that my erections go away pretty quickly if I'm not in a certain position or if I'm not getting head, which is still enjoyable. I find myself wanting to have sex with different women..
It's normal to be curious in a monogamous relationship but you made a commitment.
You should do 2 things:
1. Stop watching so much porn.
2. Start making things a lot more interesting in bed. Lingerie and drinks sounds like pretty basic stuff. You might have more luck with cosplay and scenario based stuff.
I'm scared to talk to her about it because she already feels like it's her fault. I dont want to hurt her self esteem. She thinks she isn't attractive to me, which isn't true. She's beautiful. It's my own personal issues that are hurting the sex. I know I need to stop watching porn and masturbating.
If you don't talk about it you're contributing to her low self esteem, which is often fragile for women after having a child.
You're a grown up aren't you? Relationships without clear honest communication run into trouble with or without pornography being involved: TALK TO HER!
It's very simple all you have to do is stop watching porn and beating off.
Once your cock realizes your hand isn't your wifes cunt your cock will conform to her cunt. The cock was made for the cunt don't try to trick it with your hand.
It will take your cock up to 9 months to completely recover from abstinence
Is it normal that porn is ruining my sex life?
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The sex isn't fun anymore though. It hasn't been for a while. We'll try to spice it up every now and then, maybe have drinks before, she'll wear lingerie, etc. But the biggest problem is that my erections go away pretty quickly if I'm not in a certain position or if I'm not getting head, which is still enjoyable. I find myself wanting to have sex with different women..
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It's normal to be curious in a monogamous relationship but you made a commitment.
You should do 2 things:
1. Stop watching so much porn.
2. Start making things a lot more interesting in bed. Lingerie and drinks sounds like pretty basic stuff. You might have more luck with cosplay and scenario based stuff.
Have you talked to your wife about this?
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I'm scared to talk to her about it because she already feels like it's her fault. I dont want to hurt her self esteem. She thinks she isn't attractive to me, which isn't true. She's beautiful. It's my own personal issues that are hurting the sex. I know I need to stop watching porn and masturbating.
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If you don't talk about it you're contributing to her low self esteem, which is often fragile for women after having a child.
You're a grown up aren't you? Relationships without clear honest communication run into trouble with or without pornography being involved: TALK TO HER!
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Lol, yes I am a grown up. Thanks for the advice :)
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It's very simple all you have to do is stop watching porn and beating off.
Once your cock realizes your hand isn't your wifes cunt your cock will conform to her cunt. The cock was made for the cunt don't try to trick it with your hand.
It will take your cock up to 9 months to completely recover from abstinence
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