Well it is normal that it happens, but you do not need to pander them if you dont like it. I have a friend like this too. We are in different cities now and it is more obvious than earlier now, when he only mostly calls me when he wants to crib about things. But I have chosen not to take all that negative energy onto myself and just try to cut him short. I do feel bad because I want to be concerned about his situation but then it also gets too much for me sometimes.
Is it normal that people only talk to me when they are depressed?
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Well it is normal that it happens, but you do not need to pander them if you dont like it. I have a friend like this too. We are in different cities now and it is more obvious than earlier now, when he only mostly calls me when he wants to crib about things. But I have chosen not to take all that negative energy onto myself and just try to cut him short. I do feel bad because I want to be concerned about his situation but then it also gets too much for me sometimes.