Is it normal that people get married after saying they'll never marry?

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  • dinz
    11 years ago | pl

    I'm currently going through a separation at the moment and I can tell you it has a much profound effect on your life than falling in love.

    It's like a earthquake rocked your house and you are left to pick up the pieces off the floor, you spend hours/days/months/years trying to glue tiny pieces back together. I understand why some people don't want to get married, that ultimate fear of being put through the pain again.

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    • NoraBaker
      11 years ago | pl

      The broken-home feeling that a separation causes is indeed one of the most intense and awful ones we may have to face in a lifetime, I completely agree. I should know.

      But I think you are speaking of being remarried rather than just married. Those who've never been married don't really know what that earthquake is to not want to relive it.

      However, they don't know how wonderful it is, or can be, to share a life and yourself with a person/s you love either. Because even if it has been shattered, it existed. And probably made you happy for a while.

      Disclaimer: I'm not in any way endorsing marriage or remarriage.

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