Is it normal that people are pushing me to be gay?

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Ever since i can remember, people have been asking me, "are you gay?" I always reply no. I have been asked that so many times im starting to second guess myself. Then i think to myself, Ive been in love with my best friend who is a girl. Im confused as hell.
Is it normal that people are pushing me to be gay? Everyone questions my sexuality. It's making me question it.

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  • AngAnders114
    12 years ago

    why not give it a try, you may end up liking it

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  • Chillpill
    12 years ago

    maybe something about you just doesn't conform to their idea of normal masculinity. Have you ever challenged these assumptions and asked them what gives them that impression?

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  • LovingTogether
    11 years ago

    Become a bisexual and you'll have the best of both worlds!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Tell them to go fuck themselves. I had a lot of people think I was gay in high school because I had fashion sense and looked after myself. The whole time I was getting more girls than the people accusing me of being gay. Besides there is nothing wrong with being gay if you feels it for you then go for it.

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  • Treez
    12 years ago

    I do this to bullshit captain annoying

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  • YumInsanity
    12 years ago

    What other people think of you is more important than what you think, so you should stop being selfish and become as gay as possible

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  • Treez
    12 years ago

    .... can you?

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  • CorryA90
    12 years ago

    You may cary yourself differently. poeple if they know it or not are constanly reading your body, maybe you have a gay quirk i have a few straight friends that have gay quirks. your only gay if you can say it outloud and me totally comfortable with it and not care if others know, if you are GREAT if your not GREAT it doesnt matter. your sex life doesnt effect anyone but you and your partner, its none of their beez wax

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    Pardon the language, but it's none of their fucking business. It's ok to question your sexuality though, but do it for yourself and yourself only. Questioning things is a good way of learning.

    It doesn't matter if you find out that you are straight, gay, bi; these are only labels anyway. Live your life how you want to live it.

    People feel safer with labels sometimes. It's as if they make the world go round.

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago

    People should quit bothering other people about these things.

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  • Treez
    12 years ago

    or maybe youre just a friendly people person that loves what they trust

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  • AshTheBrat
    12 years ago

    just because people constantly ask you about it doesn't make you fancy people of the same sex.
    or have you had sexual feelings for someone of the same sex?
    either way, don't worry, people are accepting in todays society.

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  • Treez
    12 years ago

    if youre acceptable of the question without getting mad and trying to deny it maybe you are

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    • Tisgranum
      12 years ago

      I completely disagree with that statement. Sometimes it's the ones getting mad that have tendencies and then not getting mad just says nothing at all.

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      • Treez
        12 years ago

        He can think for himself

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        • Tisgranum
          12 years ago

          Can you?

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          • Treez
            12 years ago

            U should get beat up

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            • Tisgranum
              12 years ago

              Just because you can't take criticism doesn't mean it shouldn't exist. I disagreed with what you said and so I mentioned it, and your reply insinuated that I shouldn't have posted my opinion. My opinion was in disagreement to yours, and I believe it was good to post it as it shows both sides of the medal (sort of speak).

              If you can't take criticism, there's an easy solution to that; Shut the fuck up.

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