Spanking or beating your child is entirely pointless and creates for weirdos down the line. The only people I know who got spanked and “plan” (people who openly talk about how they are going to hit their future child that doesn’t even exist yet are insane individuals) to spank their children are complete whack jobs who seriously shouldn’t have a child.
I, living on a farm that requires a lot of work, have the... privilege... to be the home that everyone ‘threatens’ to send their child to for the summer if they act up. And I do have a few neighborhood rascals that come and work on my land for some pay every now and then. Physical labor and working with animals is an amazing way to set someone straight, it’s therapeutic and puts a gentle hand on a strong arm. But making labor a punishment creates for trash work-ethic and ruins the feeling of fulfillment that comes with completing tasks and creating improvements.
I raise my nephew and there’s never be any instance where I’ve had to even raise my voice with him. There are many behavioral hiccups you can very easily avoid if you simply talk about it with your cub first before they start to come along. Also, putting an iPad in your child’s lap and then being surprised when they act out out of boredom is stupid. Your stimuli-fried kid isn’t going to develop in a healthy fashion mentally or emotionally if all they have to do is stare at a screen.
This. Though I've never had the experience of sending children for physical labour per se, getting them involved in physical activity absolutely works wonders.
IIN That parents don't want to punish their children for bad behavior?
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Spanking or beating your child is entirely pointless and creates for weirdos down the line. The only people I know who got spanked and “plan” (people who openly talk about how they are going to hit their future child that doesn’t even exist yet are insane individuals) to spank their children are complete whack jobs who seriously shouldn’t have a child.
I, living on a farm that requires a lot of work, have the... privilege... to be the home that everyone ‘threatens’ to send their child to for the summer if they act up. And I do have a few neighborhood rascals that come and work on my land for some pay every now and then. Physical labor and working with animals is an amazing way to set someone straight, it’s therapeutic and puts a gentle hand on a strong arm. But making labor a punishment creates for trash work-ethic and ruins the feeling of fulfillment that comes with completing tasks and creating improvements.
I raise my nephew and there’s never be any instance where I’ve had to even raise my voice with him. There are many behavioral hiccups you can very easily avoid if you simply talk about it with your cub first before they start to come along. Also, putting an iPad in your child’s lap and then being surprised when they act out out of boredom is stupid. Your stimuli-fried kid isn’t going to develop in a healthy fashion mentally or emotionally if all they have to do is stare at a screen.
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This. Though I've never had the experience of sending children for physical labour per se, getting them involved in physical activity absolutely works wonders.
Who'd've thunk?