This is very sad and confusing I bet.
I feel for you as I was in a similar situation many years ago. One my close friends who meant the world to me randomly stopped talking to me. She ignored my txts and when I went to visit her and her dad , she didnt even say hi.
I was so confused a nd distraught about it all and I ended up leaving her alone.
Turns out she was jealous of the friendship I had with her dad and 4 months later she rang :) We never spoke about why but I knew through people that told me this . When I confronted her about it she lied and gave me an explanation that didnt make sense but I knew the truth. It just goes to show that sometimes we think we know someone when we often dont know everything. There are many layers to someone and usually they will feign feelings to make eveything seem okay. So who knows what "Timy" is going through. Perhaps he is going through personal issues such as but not limited to; depression or anxiety or grief , jealousy etc. It could be to do with you/es then again it could not be. If I were u id at least write or leave a voice message asking if I have or we have zone something to upset you and that I would at least like an explanation to why u are avoiding us and we miss you. Hope this helps and good luck.
We've tried every possible way to contact him and to no avail :( We've just given up on this point. We have done our part and now it's his choice to come around or not.
Im so sorry, I wish I could help more but all u can do is contact him in all ways such az ring, fb message, txt and write a letter and put it in his letter box. Then its upto him when he wants to get in touch , if he doesnt then he never was a decent mate because anyone who cared the slightest would make a courtesy call to explain why
IIN That our best friend is doing this?! (long post, sorry)
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This is very sad and confusing I bet.
I feel for you as I was in a similar situation many years ago. One my close friends who meant the world to me randomly stopped talking to me. She ignored my txts and when I went to visit her and her dad , she didnt even say hi.
I was so confused a nd distraught about it all and I ended up leaving her alone.
Turns out she was jealous of the friendship I had with her dad and 4 months later she rang :) We never spoke about why but I knew through people that told me this . When I confronted her about it she lied and gave me an explanation that didnt make sense but I knew the truth. It just goes to show that sometimes we think we know someone when we often dont know everything. There are many layers to someone and usually they will feign feelings to make eveything seem okay. So who knows what "Timy" is going through. Perhaps he is going through personal issues such as but not limited to; depression or anxiety or grief , jealousy etc. It could be to do with you/es then again it could not be. If I were u id at least write or leave a voice message asking if I have or we have zone something to upset you and that I would at least like an explanation to why u are avoiding us and we miss you. Hope this helps and good luck.
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*done not zone lol
We've tried every possible way to contact him and to no avail :( We've just given up on this point. We have done our part and now it's his choice to come around or not.
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Im so sorry, I wish I could help more but all u can do is contact him in all ways such az ring, fb message, txt and write a letter and put it in his letter box. Then its upto him when he wants to get in touch , if he doesnt then he never was a decent mate because anyone who cared the slightest would make a courtesy call to explain why