Well, he got kicked out because he was basically a piece of shit. Went to work, came home, ignored the family and just did whatever he wanted. The reason he got the boot was because Timmy's mother got a teaching job and no longer needed his income to support the household. She was tired of dealing with all the grief, so she just eliminated the problem.
I would say it has been since mid-September 2014 that he hasn't talked to us.
That is a pretty long time. I would back off at that point and let him make the next move if he's willing. That situation would drive me crazy too, not knowing what the hell happened to the friendship but it sounds like he just wants space. I might write a well worded letter asking for some peace of mind or an explanation and letting him know what the friendship meant to me. By the looks of it he wouldn't respond, but it will give you a bit of closure and establish what terms you're on now.
IIN That our best friend is doing this?! (long post, sorry)
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Well, he got kicked out because he was basically a piece of shit. Went to work, came home, ignored the family and just did whatever he wanted. The reason he got the boot was because Timmy's mother got a teaching job and no longer needed his income to support the household. She was tired of dealing with all the grief, so she just eliminated the problem.
I would say it has been since mid-September 2014 that he hasn't talked to us.
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That is a pretty long time. I would back off at that point and let him make the next move if he's willing. That situation would drive me crazy too, not knowing what the hell happened to the friendship but it sounds like he just wants space. I might write a well worded letter asking for some peace of mind or an explanation and letting him know what the friendship meant to me. By the looks of it he wouldn't respond, but it will give you a bit of closure and establish what terms you're on now.