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I've been with a couple of men and none of them have been able to make me cum the way I make myself cum... With some of them I came but to say the least it wasn't anywhere near where I get myself when I masturbate... Do you think there is something wrong with me?
I am sorry to hear that your male lovers can not get you to cum as hard as when you masturbate. The problem lies strictly with your male lovers...They are probably so pre-occupied with their own pleasure...that they are omitting the vitally important aspect of making sure their female lover is fully satisfied... They should always be inquiring to see that are perform to your ultimate sexual satisfcation of your needs and desires..before they "get off" If necessary..you need to direct them specifically to what areas of your womanhood ring your bell!!
The #1 rule in our marriage...the wife goes first in terms of reaching orgasm...Until she tells me she has had enough...I keep providing her oral sex....because if the wife is not happy in bed...no one is going to be happy!!
as one man told me... best orgasm he ever hand he gave to himself
it's ok that way.
you know your body and its needs better than any one else
Frankly, it's because 9 out of 10 males out there, just want to cum and get out.
I'm completely the opposite tbh, but I'm an exception.
Try a dog... I heard they can give pleasure and are good lovers =P Yes I'm serious.
No really only if you really love animals that'd be a good suggestion...
Just keep on trying finding a good lover...