Is it normal that often i prefer to watch my wife masturbate to orgasm

The title bar wouldn't let me complete but the rest of it would read..."while I masturbate myself?" Almost every time we have sex, I like my wife to orgasm first before I enter her. Sometimes using my fingers or tongue, but also watching her use a sex toy gets me off, especially if she puts it inside her. Although I do enjoy coming inside her, I really have to stop myself coming while she is coming too. What I'd really like to do ideally, is watch her orgasm, then enter her and orgasm together.

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  • Fujiman

    I could have written your post about myself, word for word. I had to train myself to suppress the urge to come myself while she was coming during the finger/tongue/toy stage. If I enter her seconds after her orgasm subsides (on her cue!), there's a chance that she may come again while I come inside her, but it's very hard to do.
    I guess that watching her orgasm makes me want to orgasm at the same time. She tells me to go ahead and masturbate if I'd like, especially while she's using her toy, but I'm only good for one per hour, and I'd rather it be inside her! Besides, I can always do it myself later as well!!

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