Is it normal that no person in the world understands me?

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i have a lot of friends but never have i met someone who understands my thoughts or my problems,sometimes they see my problems silly and no one can understand me a little bit. Even my sisters my mom and my bestfriend.Is it that all people are like me or is it that i haven't met that person that understands and i should just keep looking for that person.

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Based on 13 votes (10 yes)
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  • Almosttoolesbiantofunction
    6 years ago

    It's totally normal, it takes a very long time to fully understand someone. You are complex and it'll take a while before someone fully gets you

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  • Ray-BanRaven
    6 years ago

    I was wondering the same thing myself. I've always been misunderstood.

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  • SmokeEverything
    6 years ago

    You need to find people on the same mental wavelength as you. Most times people who stray outside the norms of society tend to get along better with like-minded people. You have to just meet as many people as possible.

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  • Endless
    6 years ago

    Stop looking without and start looking within lol😂

    in all seriousness try extending your social circle and start trying to understand other people! Through understanding other people you can start to understand your self and I think that's way more important.

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  • ilovemybabies
    6 years ago

    You should keep searching untill you find someone that sees who you really are. You will never find a perfect much, since people are all different, but if you try hard enough you will end up sourounded by people that see the true you. And if they can't understand you they are poor excuses for friends and make sure you tell them that!

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    I feel the same way. I'm young, but not a teenager so that can't be it. It is a frustrating issue, feeling like your vibes don't match with others' vibes.

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    • sallyyyyy
      6 years ago

      Exactly!

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      • [Old Memory]
        6 years ago

        I went to a counselor a handful of times to talk about this specific topic. He seemed to understand what I was saying, which was great. He suggested that I talk to new people and be open with them. I have kind of tried that, but it doesn't really resolve this issue.

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  • ritter1234
    6 years ago

    You will eventually find someone. In the meantime, try not to think too much about it and learn to appreciate kindness above all before understanding. A lot of people can be kind even if they don't understand you.

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    You seem to be going through the teenage, "nobody gets me, mom!" Stage. Lolol

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    • ilovemybabies
      6 years ago

      Teenager and kids act like that because they still believe they can be who they realy are in this shitwhole we call society. That ends up with two ways: either kill who you really are and keep only what others want to see of you so you won't be hurt again ("normal people"), or realize no one will ever give a shit and learn not to give a shit about them giving a shit; learn to trust and be proud of yourself (<1% of people). Sometimes (usually more romantic and artistic) people are still searching that after their teenage years. He will eventually become the one or the other (and since he hasn't been "corrupted" yet he has good chances for the second).

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      • [Old Memory]
        6 years ago

        Exactly. They believe they can be what they want in life in this world at a time so many just don't have the dedication or understanding due to their young age. A lot of people don't become what they wanted to be purely on the fact that they fucked around instead of working towards those aims, then complain about the life they never earned because they didn't dedicate themselves to earning it.

        The world has a vast amount of opportunities for you to achieve your goals/dreams, and those that fight tooth and nail to achieve it often do and those that squandered their opportunities tend to have a bad view of the world as if it they had no responsibility in not achiving their aims.

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        • The_Magnificent_Flatuoso
          6 years ago

          Those that seek to achieve their dreams could have been sabotaged by social justice ideals as well. Ever been denied a promotion because of "equality" or "equal employment". No?

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          • Zorak
            6 years ago

            Hello Faggotpenis.

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    • sallyyyyy
      6 years ago

      no im not 😐😐

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