Is it normal that no boys have ever been interested in me?

Hello, i am 19 this year, like everyone else i go to school and have that normal teenage life. But theres this one thing that i noticed, almost every girls i know have atleast one guy crush ing on them, just not me:) yesss i may sound like a narcissistic bitch but i really dont get it or is it normal. My beautiful friends have several guys into them : sure!; My really normal and nothing special abt them-friends have a few guys into them:okayy... ; My really manly looking, lesbian friend have a guy crushing on her: WHATTT?
I MEANN WHYYY? have this ever happen to anyone?? I mean im not that bad of a human being... I feel very insecure about this for alongggg time. I shook it off once, telling myself this fact doesnt mean that im not desirable but now its comming back and my self esteem is lower than ever. Please tell me what you think and what you presume that would drive the boys away?

Is It Normal?
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  • I'm sure that's not true. You just don't know how to read their signals yet.

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    • I actually overthinking stuffs alot sooo if there's any signal, i would have known. But maybe the thing is i dont actually give anyone signals sooo.... I do look like the serious type of girl tbh

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  • Its possible they do and you don't know. Some high school guys are shy and wont approach a girl they like.

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  • Do you flirt with guys or do you just expect something to fall into your lap?

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    • Now that you mention ittttt, i dont really flirt with anyone :))) oops, i mean i dont really know how to flirt to be honest..

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      • Well everyone flirts differently so there isn't really a secret to it. Maybe start with being aware of it and show some interest in people ypu think are nice. Nature will take over and it won't be so hard, the more you try it. Just put yourself out there, if that makes sense. Be yourself.and have fun 😊

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  • Sounds like you have a long way to go. To start from zero, do this. Search YouTube.com for how to be comfortable in your skin. Watch the vids, practice the stuff. Then search YouTube for good body language and how to flirt. When you get that far, remember that you are not flirting to get boys, you are flirting to have fun with the boys you can't get.

    Don't worry about how to talk dirty and give knockout kisses. That's advanced shit. When you start having fun with guys, smiles become effortless.

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  • It could be that you're just not approachable. Do you make eye contact, smile, things like that? Maybe guys just haven't seen an opening. Unless you're a troll monster I'm sure some guy is interested.

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    • Maybe it is so, i mean i make jokes most of the time when im with my girl group but ive never been that comfortable with a guy

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  • Maybe you just don't know who likes you or something. No one has ever liked me either, at least that I know about. I'm sure you are cute, you just haven't found a guy yet.

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  • Could your social skills need a little work? With improved social skills you should become a little more self assured. A little confidence can go a long way.

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  • What if a guy have a crush on you he is just a bit shy there's always a guy so hell yeah its normal

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  • there's something wrong with your appearance or personality to not attract men at nineteen year old. ghost your friends and see how they dress and act. i am sure if you copy their style your luck will change.

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    • thats what ive been thinking for a long time,ive changed the way i dress up but i cant really change the way i act. even if someone come up to me,i wouldnt like them anw. Why date someone when you dont even like yourself?

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      • i can see by your attitude in this comment why you drive guy away. i didn't say date someone you don't like. read again, please.

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  • I can be your foreigner friend just write me :)

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