Well, rather than posting something so obviously "Not Normal" on a web site and then sitting back waiting for us to give you the obvious answers, why don't you try sitting down with the Mrs, minus all the anger and rude talk, and let her know how you feel about where your relationship has gone and how you thought things would be different. But, be prepared, she may have complaints about you too....things you are unaware of, maybe you suck in the sack, I don't know.
But, rather than just making it a "complain about her" session...Perhaps you should find out WHAT it is she does all day? She may be busy doing things you are unaware of. Maybe she's banging the neighbor who works nights. Perhaps see what motivates her, get her involved in classes, art, doing SOMETHING.
Maybe she is genuinely pissed at you. Relationships aren't just about money, who does what. There is a lot more to them than that. Maybe she has grown tired of you?
And, oh, maybe if you offered to do the dishes if she'll cook the meal, that might motivate her to cook for you. Perhaps a compliment on how good her cooking is, maybe a nice bouquet of flowers or a little gift might be nice. When was the last time you took her out someplace romantic, did what SHE wanted to do??? When was the last time you ravaged her, told her how sexy you think she is, even if she HAS put on a few lbs?
You married this broad for a reason. It sounds like you DON'T have kids yet, which is EXCELLENT for both of you fucks sakes. Thank GOD you haven't brought kids into another bad relationship...kids don't need that. They need a LOVING home with supporting parents who KNOW how to get along, love each other, do things for each other.
Relationships are supposed to be about "give and take". Maybe she doesn't know that, or, maybe she is sick of your bitching attitude and figures, the less she does, the sooner you'll be on your way, and then, rather than being married to a looser-geek-computer nerd who finds time to whine on web sites about her, she'll snag your boss' boss as a new mate, live the luxury life she really wants while the whole time, she crushes your balls to oblivion.
That way, you can instead be posting up here advice on how to kill your boss' boss, or, how to get the image out of your head of her banging him every time he comes home to her!
Or, maybe she really is just a bitch, and you need to dump her and move on. You be the judge of that.
And, if you DO move on, maybe the next time, before you get hitched, you'll have had talked about things like this and both agreed on what your "roles" are to support one another.
IIN that my wife won't do anything?
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Well, rather than posting something so obviously "Not Normal" on a web site and then sitting back waiting for us to give you the obvious answers, why don't you try sitting down with the Mrs, minus all the anger and rude talk, and let her know how you feel about where your relationship has gone and how you thought things would be different. But, be prepared, she may have complaints about you too....things you are unaware of, maybe you suck in the sack, I don't know.
But, rather than just making it a "complain about her" session...Perhaps you should find out WHAT it is she does all day? She may be busy doing things you are unaware of. Maybe she's banging the neighbor who works nights. Perhaps see what motivates her, get her involved in classes, art, doing SOMETHING.
Maybe she is genuinely pissed at you. Relationships aren't just about money, who does what. There is a lot more to them than that. Maybe she has grown tired of you?
And, oh, maybe if you offered to do the dishes if she'll cook the meal, that might motivate her to cook for you. Perhaps a compliment on how good her cooking is, maybe a nice bouquet of flowers or a little gift might be nice. When was the last time you took her out someplace romantic, did what SHE wanted to do??? When was the last time you ravaged her, told her how sexy you think she is, even if she HAS put on a few lbs?
You married this broad for a reason. It sounds like you DON'T have kids yet, which is EXCELLENT for both of you fucks sakes. Thank GOD you haven't brought kids into another bad relationship...kids don't need that. They need a LOVING home with supporting parents who KNOW how to get along, love each other, do things for each other.
Relationships are supposed to be about "give and take". Maybe she doesn't know that, or, maybe she is sick of your bitching attitude and figures, the less she does, the sooner you'll be on your way, and then, rather than being married to a looser-geek-computer nerd who finds time to whine on web sites about her, she'll snag your boss' boss as a new mate, live the luxury life she really wants while the whole time, she crushes your balls to oblivion.
That way, you can instead be posting up here advice on how to kill your boss' boss, or, how to get the image out of your head of her banging him every time he comes home to her!
Or, maybe she really is just a bitch, and you need to dump her and move on. You be the judge of that.
And, if you DO move on, maybe the next time, before you get hitched, you'll have had talked about things like this and both agreed on what your "roles" are to support one another.