Unfortunately being a computer scientist is the type of job that attracts woman who are only interested in your money. I'm a computer scientist and my relationship status is perpetually single. That being said, my dad managed to do it. From what I understand my mom has been pretty good to him, and they are still together. And yes, he is a computer scientist as well. You have a right to be frustrated, but the ultimate weight of the problem is going to fall on your shoulders. This is not to say you are the cause of the problems, just that you will have to be the solution. Some questions to think about that I haven't seen posted yet are:
How many hours do you work?
Do you make an effort to make her feel like more then a freeloader?
Does she ever get out of the house to have fun on her own or are you pretty much her life?
Do you believe she feels empowered?
Does she have any ambition to have a career of her own?
Is there anything you can do to encourage her with any ambitions she does have?
These questions are not meant to attack you but to give you a few ideas for ways to better your situation. Most people want to succeed in life even if they don't know it themselves. Really, that to me (I'm a dude) is what feminism is all about. Empowerment! I took a class in collage. It did not help me get laid but it did give me a different outlook on life.
IIN that my wife won't do anything?
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Unfortunately being a computer scientist is the type of job that attracts woman who are only interested in your money. I'm a computer scientist and my relationship status is perpetually single. That being said, my dad managed to do it. From what I understand my mom has been pretty good to him, and they are still together. And yes, he is a computer scientist as well. You have a right to be frustrated, but the ultimate weight of the problem is going to fall on your shoulders. This is not to say you are the cause of the problems, just that you will have to be the solution. Some questions to think about that I haven't seen posted yet are:
How many hours do you work?
Do you make an effort to make her feel like more then a freeloader?
Does she ever get out of the house to have fun on her own or are you pretty much her life?
Do you believe she feels empowered?
Does she have any ambition to have a career of her own?
Is there anything you can do to encourage her with any ambitions she does have?
These questions are not meant to attack you but to give you a few ideas for ways to better your situation. Most people want to succeed in life even if they don't know it themselves. Really, that to me (I'm a dude) is what feminism is all about. Empowerment! I took a class in collage. It did not help me get laid but it did give me a different outlook on life.