Miravi...you're a rare breed. I've known women who were like you and you are both blessed and very rare. In 98% of these scenarios eventually a sexual interest will develop...simply the way the human psyche is programmed.
This guy has a real problem.
Also, lovingly asking her about the situation is bad news. Express the way you really feel, don't hide behind a scripted line or mask. Be you. Acting is not loving, it's weak and most women will exploit this moment to make it look like you've concluded that she can carry on when in fact you don't approve.
Lay out how you feel, don't be emotionally or verbally abusive...and lay out your personal boundaries. If at the end of the day she doesn't respect these boundaries and the sacredness of your relationship, than it's time to man-up and decide what in life will make you happy.
Is it normal that my wife spoke with a stranger at a coffee shop?
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Miravi...you're a rare breed. I've known women who were like you and you are both blessed and very rare. In 98% of these scenarios eventually a sexual interest will develop...simply the way the human psyche is programmed.
This guy has a real problem.
Also, lovingly asking her about the situation is bad news. Express the way you really feel, don't hide behind a scripted line or mask. Be you. Acting is not loving, it's weak and most women will exploit this moment to make it look like you've concluded that she can carry on when in fact you don't approve.
Lay out how you feel, don't be emotionally or verbally abusive...and lay out your personal boundaries. If at the end of the day she doesn't respect these boundaries and the sacredness of your relationship, than it's time to man-up and decide what in life will make you happy.