WHOA! She gave her number to another guy and spoke with him for 1 hour??? Man, that's insane and the fact that she feels like it's no big deal and you're overreacting? My fiancée is scared to even get approached by men because she knows I'll hold her accountable and question her as to why the men even felt that they could approach her. I'll accuse her of looking at them and giving them the "go ahead." When we're out, if a guy even looks at her too long, she'll walk over to me immediately, hold my hand and let me know, then I give him the look and he walks away.
You know that your wife would hate it if you exchanged numbers with another woman but people don't think about how it would feel once the tables are turned.
I'm not saying you should do this bc you're married and that's sacred, but I always tell my fiancée that if she feels there's someone else out there who is more suitable for her to simply let me know and I'm out. I told her from the very first date that I'm not into playing games and that if she thinks I'm going to sit around while she talks on the phone or hangs out with other guys, that she's with the wrong guy; that set a solid tone for the relationship bc she was about to hang out with some other guy the first week we dated (almost 3 yrs ago) and she hasn't played that game with me since.
Is it normal that my wife spoke with a stranger at a coffee shop?
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WHOA! She gave her number to another guy and spoke with him for 1 hour??? Man, that's insane and the fact that she feels like it's no big deal and you're overreacting? My fiancée is scared to even get approached by men because she knows I'll hold her accountable and question her as to why the men even felt that they could approach her. I'll accuse her of looking at them and giving them the "go ahead." When we're out, if a guy even looks at her too long, she'll walk over to me immediately, hold my hand and let me know, then I give him the look and he walks away.
You know that your wife would hate it if you exchanged numbers with another woman but people don't think about how it would feel once the tables are turned.
I'm not saying you should do this bc you're married and that's sacred, but I always tell my fiancée that if she feels there's someone else out there who is more suitable for her to simply let me know and I'm out. I told her from the very first date that I'm not into playing games and that if she thinks I'm going to sit around while she talks on the phone or hangs out with other guys, that she's with the wrong guy; that set a solid tone for the relationship bc she was about to hang out with some other guy the first week we dated (almost 3 yrs ago) and she hasn't played that game with me since.