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Is it normal that my wife sometimes is naked in front of my friends?

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Sometimes when my friends are round my house, my wife is not fully clothed.

When she is at home she often walks around either just in her underwear or sometimes naked which is fine when it is just me around.

But she sometimes walks around like that when my friends are over. It is not that she does it because they are around, its more that she is carrying on as if they weren't there.

Is this normal?

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Based on 124 votes (49 yes)

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Tato

5 years ago | pl

She's not doing it cause they're around. She's doing it hoping they'll come around.

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goodatgiving

5 years ago

I am naked at all times no matter who is present.
I was always naked by my immediate and extended families till I left home at 19. Now even after I stay naked. My husband loves it and encourages my freedom from clothes. I work hard at keeping my body in shape and I don't mind sharing it's beauty with others.

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Resse85

5 years ago

My girlfriend walks round in her underwear when my mates are here most of time she is naked in the house with me but only one time she came downstairs after a shower to get a towel she was naked she didn’t know my friend was here but she still walked in it didn’t bother her

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- paul0771
  
  5 years ago
  
  I guess some people are very care free when it comes to things like this.
  
  How do you feel about it? Does it bother you or are you cool with it?
  
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  - Resse85
    
    5 years ago
    
    I’m use to it now it did bother me but she said this is how I am only person I’m havin sex with is you it did bother me a bit when she was naked but underwear I’m fine with
    
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    - paul0771
      
      5 years ago
      
      Yeah, it took me a while to get used to. Especially the times she is naked. But now I am used to it, it doesn't cause me any real issues.
      
      It isn't that often she is naked when my friends are there. Maybe once every 2 months
      
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      - Resse85
        
        5 years ago
        
        It just how they are long has they don’t cheat it’s fine part of me think it’s a turn on when she in her underwear
        
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        paul0771
        
        5 years ago
        
        I have to admit that sometimes it can be a turn on, especially if she is wearing really sexy underwear. On those occasions I can't wait for my friends to leave so I can have her all to myself.
        
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Susancream

5 years ago

Have you spoken with her about it? Are any of your friends weirded out by her walking around in her underwear? Am just trying to figure out why you have a problem with it. She's not uncomfortable why should you be, but if you are its best to let her know, talk to her.

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- paul0771
  
  5 years ago
  
  We have spoken about it. I am comfortable with it now.
  
  My friends are cool with it. Well to be honest my friends are very happy about it as she is a very attractive lady.
  
  I don't have a big problem with it. I was asking the question because I was concerned if I had got used to something that I should have a problem with.
  
  However, reading peoples comments has made me realise that this is not a big deal and I should just go with it.
  
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SwickDinging

5 years ago

If your friends are there and she's walking around in her underwear, she's actively enjoying the fact that they can see her. I don't believe it hasn't crossed her mind that it's inappropriate.

It's not normal. But... If it doesn't bother you then I guess it's fine?

I walk around my house naked all the time, but I wouldn't dream of doing it when anyone other than my husband was home.

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- paul0771
  
  5 years ago
  
  I think there is a little bit of her that does like it when they see her.
  
  My friends know the score and know that they can look but not touch. Only on one occasion did things get a little out of hand, but we were all very drunk and not thinking straight.
  
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  - RoseIsabella
    
    5 years ago
    
    What happened?
    
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    - paul0771
      
      5 years ago
      
      It was a couple of years ago. A couple of my friends were round to watch football. We all had a lot of beer. My wife drank wine. She was just wearing a lacy thong.
      
      Usually my friends don't make any comments to my wife about her lack of clothes, but one of my friends suggested to my wife she was over dressed that evening. She laughed and removed her thong. I remember us all laughing. I think the fact that laughed meant my friends thought I was okay with what was happening so they pushed it a bit further and asked if they could have a feel of her tits. It progressed from there.
      
      It only went as far as them groping my wife and her giving them hand jobs (and me if I am honest). There was no oral or actual sex.
      
      I had a word with my friends the next day to say it shouldn't have happened and it won't happen again and they understood.
      
      We both regretted it and agreed we would watch our alcohol consumption in future when my friends are there.
      
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      - goodatgiving
        
        5 years ago
        
        Would you at least comment that it excited the both of you a bit. I know my husband and myself enjoy my being naked and having his friends or family visit a lot and always leads to fondling and often hjs and bjs. Even full sex at times. My husband often joins in and encourages them.
        
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      - Rabbit8999
        
        5 years ago
        
        Sounds like beginning of a bad porn movie .
        
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      - RoseIsabella
        
        5 years ago
        
        It could have been so much worse.
        
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        paul0771
        
        5 years ago
        
        Yep. What happened was not a major deal, but our thoughts were it could lead down a path that neither of us want to go down.
        
        Just for the record, neither of us a prudes. We do not judge anyone else on what they chose to do. It's just not we want.
        
        We both laugh about it these days.
        
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  - SwickDinging
    
    5 years ago
    
    Do you think if you asked her to stop, she would?
    
    Would you even want her to stop?
    
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    - paul0771
      
      5 years ago
      
      I think if I asked her to stop she would.
      
      I am not sure I would ask her to stop. I have got used to it now and it doesn't cause me any real issues. I am not the possessive or jealous type at all.
      
      I kind of like the way she is so care free. It is one of the reasons I fell for her. So I would be wary about asking her to be something different.
      
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randypete

5 years ago

Wish I was your friend

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JD777

5 years ago

Definitely not normal unless your friends are nudists or otherwise ok with it.

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trexagireve

5 years ago

She loves the idea that your friends will squeeze there cum for her after they leave

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Lestat565

5 years ago

I don’t think it’s normal but the real question is are you ok with it. If not then she should stop and respect your boundaries.

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- paul0771
  
  5 years ago
  
  I was uncomfortable with it at first but I have got used to it now and it doesn't cause me any real issues.
  
  That's part of the reason I asked the question. Have I got used to something I should not be used to.
  
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  - Lestat565
    
    5 years ago
    
    If it doesn’t bother you then who cares. As long as she’s having sex with you at the end of the night. It shouldn’t be that big of an deal.
    
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RoseIsabella

5 years ago

I don't think that's normal at all! I will say that one time when I was still married to my first ex-husband he came home for lunch, and brought a friend with him without warning me, and I was hanging out on the couch in my underwear. As soon as they realized I wasn't decent my then husband, and his friend went back outside, and then I got up, went to the bedroom, and put on some clothes. Thank God I had a blanket there on the couch so I just covered up as soon as I saw his friend. I wouldn't be just walking around in my underwear, much less naked in front of random people. I wasn't horribly uncomfortable around his friend, but it's a respect thang.

I was comfortable walking around in my underwear, or even naked in front of certain male college friends, but most of my best friends in college were gay guys. I think I had only one straight friend that I was comfortable going that around.

Some people on this site will think I'm prudish, but they can just bugger off really.

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aetsen555

5 years ago

In underwear maybe but naked ?? Nooo

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Sarajeremy

4 years ago

Not normal

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exmachina

5 years ago

If your friends don't mind and she is doing it because she likes being nude then let her keep being nude.
Some of our friends don't know about our lifestyle and that we are nudists but others do and we will be nude when they come over even if they don't join in the nudity. It is just a state of being and it is completely natural. I'd encourage her to keep it up.

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Tommy94

5 years ago

I think it's quite a turn on I wouldn't mind my gf being like that not cheat maybe a flirt and to be confident enough to be naked around my mates

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gregjm

5 years ago

How do your friends feel about it.

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Justalilcurious

5 years ago

Do you think she’d go naked if friends stopped by when you were gone?

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Justalilcurious

5 years ago

I think she wants them to notice

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ChrissySnow

5 years ago

Pretty much every boyfriend I lived with, and my husband, has wanted me to be that way. They want me exposed in some way even if we had company. In the beginning I was confused by that, not excited and not willing. To make them happy I dabble with that stuff. It has it moments but it also is REALLY mixed for me.

Right now there is only one man, besides my husband, that I'm comfortable with to be casually nude in front of is my husband's best friend. He's been seeing me au natural for almost twenty years.

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- paul0771
  
  5 years ago
  
  That's another interesting angle on the discussion. I never encouraged my wife to expose herself in company. She just does it.
  
  I don't think she plans it or does it especially because my friends are there. Its more she just carries on as if they are not there. I guess that's good because it means she feels completely at home when my friends are round.
  
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curious-bunny

5 years ago

Nice word for word repost

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jtkirkfan2002

5 years ago

Some people are just comfortable that way. If it bothers you, ask her why she does it.

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- paul0771
  
  5 years ago
  
  We have talked about it and she just says she feels comfortable like that in her own home. She doesn't get embarrassed easily and is very confident in herself (not in a smug way).
  
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WarriorGene

5 years ago

I wouldn't tolerate that

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