And by communicate I don't mean texting her at work or asking "why won't you have sex, what's wrong with you?"
That will just pull her defenses UP, not down.
What you should do instead is find out what's happening at work, why she's tired. Be interested in her day and let her open up.
You may also want to consider planning a nice relaxed night. No booze, just candles and soft music and resting. It doesn't have to be about getting laid ... it might happen, but it might not. The main goal is to get back in harmony with her.
Is it normal that my wife seems to be not wanting sex?
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What you need to do is COMMUNICATE.
And by communicate I don't mean texting her at work or asking "why won't you have sex, what's wrong with you?"
That will just pull her defenses UP, not down.
What you should do instead is find out what's happening at work, why she's tired. Be interested in her day and let her open up.
You may also want to consider planning a nice relaxed night. No booze, just candles and soft music and resting. It doesn't have to be about getting laid ... it might happen, but it might not. The main goal is to get back in harmony with her.