It's not explainable. It simply is a feeling that didn't go away for her. No matter how much better you are than some abusive bastard. I've had a friend go through the same. She still thinks about that a reckless bad boy more than any regular gentleman she meets even though he doesn't give a damn about her or any other girl he uses to have fun with. Yet she still wants and thinks about being with him even though he is a horrible partner for a relationship. Maybe it's psychological, who knows. It really doesn't make sense at all....
Iin that my wife is still hung up on her first husband?
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It's not explainable. It simply is a feeling that didn't go away for her. No matter how much better you are than some abusive bastard. I've had a friend go through the same. She still thinks about that a reckless bad boy more than any regular gentleman she meets even though he doesn't give a damn about her or any other girl he uses to have fun with. Yet she still wants and thinks about being with him even though he is a horrible partner for a relationship. Maybe it's psychological, who knows. It really doesn't make sense at all....