Is it normal that my wife hates everyone that i like or love?

Jealous controling freaky bitch! I know someone like this and she treats her husband the same way. She has a personality disorder and I trully beloved she needs mental help. Jealousy can make pol crazy. U deserve better! Leave her controlling nasty arse!

Because she is not used to not taking all of your attention... she wants ALL OF IT... she's got a problem dude... make her respect you...

There's not much info from which to draw any kind of conclusion mate. It could be any number of things individually or in combintion.

Look from her POV. You have part of your life , work, social, family etc, of which she is not a part. Does she have somethng similar? Does she work? Does she have friends which aren't yours too? Are you spending as much time in her company as you do in the company of others? Do you still have anything in common? Is she insecure about your "outside" life? Does she see herself as not the most important thing in your life, as she should be? Looks that way a bit.

"We don't spend enough time together." Why not? Relationships don't just tun themselves mate you have to out some effort into them.

My thoughts? Your wife should not be just another part of your life like all the rest and, you're not trying anywhere near hard enough.

She sounds Like Hera.

It isn't normal for her to be so jealous. Give her a ultimatum.

If you didn't have kids, I'd say leave. But since you do, you might want to quit your second job and do more stuff around the house and spend more time with your family.

It might be good if your wife got a job too. She's probably mentally unbalanced because she's couped up in the house with the kids when you aren't home. It's easy not to understand the pressure that's there when you work if you haven't worked for some time.

Your wife loves you (a way too much maybe) and tha's why she act this way...i know it's hard but right know you have to be SOFT and HARD at the same time, you have to walk on EGGS (it's the title of a book about this sickness) i'm pretty sure that you understand what it mean deep inside of you..walking on eggs is not that too easy, but for me even if i loose love a little bit for my wife there is nothing which make me happy to see that she cahnge a lot with discussion !!and don't worry if she falls again..this time i'm pretty sure she is gonna apologize right after!

It's only my personal experience but it's really close to yours so i though i should write a little bit about!

After you should learn a bit more about borderline.

don't give up, i know it's hard but she really needs you...

Sorry for my poor english i'm a foreigner!

Ok im gonna try to help on this one!

My wife is exactly the same and i almost divorced that time , but for my personal experience and for her i tried to figured out why she was so "irritate" all the time...

First you have to know that your wife is sick.(you should know and she should know) don't bother you to explain her she already know it.

Her sickness??She is Borderline (bi polar, with paranoia)trust me i study this case a lot!

First you have to understand that this category of people react differently ... for example..YOU can be happy very happy , depressive, melancolic, angry very angry....and so on...

SHE is gonna be only VERYYYYYYYYY HAPPY or VERYYYYY ANGRY or VERYYYY SAD!! do you understand?she is gonna be only VERYYY something.

When you undestand that you gonna understand that she can't control her feelings herself..im pretty sure that she is liying to you a lot, she imagine lot of weird stuff?she is telling you that you don't love her?right?maybe she already told you that she wants to suicide or change life?she always comparing herself to the others persons you're talking about or on the magazine television....it's her way to asking you to take care of her.

This kind of person need a BIG BIG affection ...

When you tried to talk with her , did she told you that everything is ok and she doesn't want to talk because she is tired?

You also have to understand that she is acting this way because she thinks that nobody likes her (PARANOIA) and of course she is a little bit jealous that you can have a social life.(Does she already ask you if you talk about your problems with her to your friends?) Of course it's a wrong way to act but SHE doesn't control it.

From now on, it's gonna be really hard for you but trust me i love my wife so much that i can kill for her but sometimes when she's acting like you wife is acting i want to kill her cause i don't understand why she needs to do this things.

You have to tell her that "she has a problem" and you want consult a professional, that you want to help her and you are pretty sure she is gonna feel better without this "stress" she put on herself. Life is good!

Honestly i'm pretty sure she already told you that she doesn't like herself or something like that.

Try to help her the best you can, normaly you can solve this problem with medicine, the problem is it's really strong medicine and not a lot of people want o take it or see his/her partner take it too...My wife doesn't want !

Try giving her a good spanking...

I would listen to kellstar. Check out bpd. bpdfamily.com might be a good resource for you. Good luck

She is either extremely insecure and jealous of anyone that merits your attention, or there is something much, much deeper going on and she's trying to push you away on purpose. Don't want to scare you, but as a woman, it sounds to me like something else is going on.

Since you've approached her about this before (I hope gently, and not in anger) you need to now lay down the law. Tell her she's making you miserable and that this behavior has got to stop if you're going to make this relationship work. If she's feeling neglected (however irrationally) suggest activities that you can do together on the weekends, start cooking dinner together when you get home, have a date night once a week. Put some romance back in your relationship to let her know she's still the most important thing to you.

However, as I said before, she needs to know that this kind of behavior is completely uncalled for coming from a grown woman. If there is a problem, she needs to approach you as an adult, not a jealous teenager.

she either feels like u r leaving her out or she is jealous that she doesnt have friends and family like urs.

Well i wouldn't look further..75 hours a week is fucking crazy,not everyone dreams of that kind of ''way of living life''.

Don't think that she is trying to push you away... She probably just loves you so much she doesn't want you to stray away.. Talk with her about it and hopefully she can be better to you..

Wow. She sounds just like my husband.