Firstly, excellent to hear you have remained faithful to your wife. That's very refreshing these days. I hope you can stay so too since extra-marital affairs wreck the energy of a marriage, period.
Maybe she is suffering from depression. Is she stuck at home with no life of her own? How old are you both? She could be experiencing perimenopause or a mid-life crisis and depression and a lack of sexual desire are common in women at such times. Do you do things regularly to make her feel appreciated- buy flowers, offer help with housework etc? Or does she have to work, come home and deal with the chores, you and the children altogether (a recipe for exhaustion)?
Please consider all these things...and talk to her. Show concern and then really listen. Women need to be heard.
Is it normal that my wife does not initiate any affection?
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Firstly, excellent to hear you have remained faithful to your wife. That's very refreshing these days. I hope you can stay so too since extra-marital affairs wreck the energy of a marriage, period.
Maybe she is suffering from depression. Is she stuck at home with no life of her own? How old are you both? She could be experiencing perimenopause or a mid-life crisis and depression and a lack of sexual desire are common in women at such times. Do you do things regularly to make her feel appreciated- buy flowers, offer help with housework etc? Or does she have to work, come home and deal with the chores, you and the children altogether (a recipe for exhaustion)?
Please consider all these things...and talk to her. Show concern and then really listen. Women need to be heard.