Sit her down and talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel, but also tell her that as a result, thoughts of finding love elsewhere has came to you, and you don't want it to happen but it is something you feel you need.
If she still doesn't want to initiate or engage in it, then perhaps you should find another person. The problem is the children, and that's the problem a lot of guys have. They have a partner, they have children, then all of a sudden the partner doesn't want to be affectionate. This means that if you do want to go elsewhere you have issues with children, custody, and so on.
This is why I would much rather have a child on my own (surrogate or adoption) than with a woman. Not saying all women are like this, but the risk of it would be too much in my books.
Is it normal that my wife does not initiate any affection?
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Sit her down and talk to her about it. Tell her how you feel, but also tell her that as a result, thoughts of finding love elsewhere has came to you, and you don't want it to happen but it is something you feel you need.
If she still doesn't want to initiate or engage in it, then perhaps you should find another person. The problem is the children, and that's the problem a lot of guys have. They have a partner, they have children, then all of a sudden the partner doesn't want to be affectionate. This means that if you do want to go elsewhere you have issues with children, custody, and so on.
This is why I would much rather have a child on my own (surrogate or adoption) than with a woman. Not saying all women are like this, but the risk of it would be too much in my books.