I agree. Talk to her. Women get really exhausted by life when they are married and have kids. See what exactly has her down and what she's thinking. Is she just coping with life right now and has nothing to give you emotionally? What can you do to help her? Hire some help with chores? Let her cut back on the hours she works? Are there chores she needs more help with from you? Does she need a vacation where the kids stay with your parents?
Don't make the mistake of stepping out of the marriage, thinking she won't care. She may do as many women I've heard of, and make you regret this by getting a divorce and taking much of the money. It happens time and time again. I've heard the stories. One guy didn't want his ex to take their 4-year-old son and move 1000 miles away, and when he objected, she made up a story about him molesting their son just so she could move away without him interfering! So be very, very careful to do things in the right order.
Is it normal that my wife does not initiate any affection?
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I agree. Talk to her. Women get really exhausted by life when they are married and have kids. See what exactly has her down and what she's thinking. Is she just coping with life right now and has nothing to give you emotionally? What can you do to help her? Hire some help with chores? Let her cut back on the hours she works? Are there chores she needs more help with from you? Does she need a vacation where the kids stay with your parents?
Don't make the mistake of stepping out of the marriage, thinking she won't care. She may do as many women I've heard of, and make you regret this by getting a divorce and taking much of the money. It happens time and time again. I've heard the stories. One guy didn't want his ex to take their 4-year-old son and move 1000 miles away, and when he objected, she made up a story about him molesting their son just so she could move away without him interfering! So be very, very careful to do things in the right order.