Split them up as much as possible and force them to face uncomfortable situations. EG. Send one into a shop to buy some sweets so that she has to talk to the cashier etc. My mother forced us to talk to people (long story) and shrugged off our objections. It paid off as none of my siblings have any confidence issues.
You are going to have to work at this. I don't think they can really fulfil their full potential if they can't get out there and 'fight' for what they want.
Is it normal that my twins are VERY shy?
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Split them up as much as possible and force them to face uncomfortable situations. EG. Send one into a shop to buy some sweets so that she has to talk to the cashier etc. My mother forced us to talk to people (long story) and shrugged off our objections. It paid off as none of my siblings have any confidence issues.
You are going to have to work at this. I don't think they can really fulfil their full potential if they can't get out there and 'fight' for what they want.
Good luck.