There is only about 100 different ways of looking at this situation.
(1)This is not really a joking matter!! Obviously Dad is terribly concerned. To suggest that his son might be a future porn star is like throwing salt into an open wound!!
(2) There is the fact that the boy... (and I do mean BOY!) is 18 yrs old and responsible for his own decisions, but is he able to make them responsibly?? Nevertheless, short of talking to him about it, there is nothing more that Dad can do.
(3) How was this boy raised? Was it a conservative Christian home or a liberal let it all hang out environment?? Only Dad and the boy know the answer to that question and it is seriously worth considering.
(4) As for the question "Is it normal?" Well, I'm currently 55 yrs old but when I was 19 yrs old I was a very liberal young man and so was my girlfriend in those days. We grew up on the Oregon coast and I remember having sex with her at beach keg parties in from of everybody!! What's normal and what's right are two different things. Today at my age I believe that sex should be just me and my wife. Your son is sowing his wild oats. Hopefully he will regret it later. I mean that in a loving way.
(5) Dad... remember when you were 18yrs old, the fantasies that went through your libido?? He's no different. Perhaps alcohol treatment is what he needs more than the sex issue. After all, if it weren't for the booze, the whole thing might never have happened!! To have a fantasy and to act on it are two different things!! If alcohol causes a person to do things that they might regret later, then maybe it's better to learn how to abstain.
(6) Prayer is good in these situations. I mean that humbly. It's worked for me!!
Is it normal that my teenage son has sex in public?
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There is only about 100 different ways of looking at this situation.
(1)This is not really a joking matter!! Obviously Dad is terribly concerned. To suggest that his son might be a future porn star is like throwing salt into an open wound!!
(2) There is the fact that the boy... (and I do mean BOY!) is 18 yrs old and responsible for his own decisions, but is he able to make them responsibly?? Nevertheless, short of talking to him about it, there is nothing more that Dad can do.
(3) How was this boy raised? Was it a conservative Christian home or a liberal let it all hang out environment?? Only Dad and the boy know the answer to that question and it is seriously worth considering.
(4) As for the question "Is it normal?" Well, I'm currently 55 yrs old but when I was 19 yrs old I was a very liberal young man and so was my girlfriend in those days. We grew up on the Oregon coast and I remember having sex with her at beach keg parties in from of everybody!! What's normal and what's right are two different things. Today at my age I believe that sex should be just me and my wife. Your son is sowing his wild oats. Hopefully he will regret it later. I mean that in a loving way.
(5) Dad... remember when you were 18yrs old, the fantasies that went through your libido?? He's no different. Perhaps alcohol treatment is what he needs more than the sex issue. After all, if it weren't for the booze, the whole thing might never have happened!! To have a fantasy and to act on it are two different things!! If alcohol causes a person to do things that they might regret later, then maybe it's better to learn how to abstain.
(6) Prayer is good in these situations. I mean that humbly. It's worked for me!!