is it normal that my stepdaughter feels this way?

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  • dude ohh hooo..
    don't go looking through her shit.
    thats wrong.
    i would never do that to my own daughter.
    she needs her privacy and space. when you do that type of shit and she finds out what you did(looking through her personals) she will hate you to no end. i know first hand from raising my youngest sibling.
    all your going to do is push her away.
    she has every right to feel the way she does after her parents separated. it is not her fault, maybe you should tell her in a polite nice way that she can come to you if she needs to talk about anything0BUT DO NOT FORCE THE HELP ONTO HER. let her say yes or no. and if she says no let her go. she will come to you when she is ready.
    okay and another thing JUST BECAUSE SHE GOT INTO TROUBLE WITH A BOY AT SCHOOL DOESN'T MEAN SHE IS ON DRUGS!!! OR HIDING ANYTHING FROM YOU!
    OKAY I THINK YOU NEED TO SIT THE F DOWN AND THINK TO YOURSELF "WASN'T I YOUNG ONCE?
    jesus she probably got in trouble for making out with a guy on campus. or letting him go up her shit. bigggyyy fkn whoopty doo!! she is growing up. let her explore and be herself.
    the more you push yourself on her and go through her stuff and accuse her of hiding and lying-SHE WILL HIDE EVERYTHING FROM YOU AND HER MOTHER. you also tell her mother to back off too.
    i think both of you (mother and father) need to take a chill pill and calm the hell down.
    as long as she isn't having sex yet its all good. but when she gets in trouble for being with a boy that is fkn lame. weren't you young once? weren't you a young horn ball at that age too? let it slide.
    honestly the way i think of this situation is who cares if she us making out with a guy her age at her school?? YOU AS A PARENT SHOULD KNOW BETTER THAN TO GO ACCUSING AND RUMMAGING THROUGH HER STUFF!!! YOU AS A PARENT SHOULD JUST BE THANKFUL SHE IS NOT AN ALCOHOLIC AND DRUG ABUSER/USER!!!!
    freakin grow up and grow some BALLS!!! AND BE A FKN REAL PARENT!

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