What you should be worried about is how he was exposed to porn, and when he finds enough time to watch it to the point of wanting to become a pornstar. Also, who explained to him that those are just actors and not real sex like how most children grow up believing when they first watch porn. I know it's alarming your son wants to be in the porn industry, but at least it's a job, and being 10 he may change his mind later if something else interest him (so don't be so hard on him or force him to change).
However, you need to find who told him all this information and encouraging him to be a pornstar, because this doesn't just happen over night, it was influenced; make sure your son isn't getting molested or something by someone older whether it be family or school staff and whatnot. Try being enthusiastic about his plans and ask how he thought of it, and who showed him how the industry works, making seem like giving you this information wont get him or his "friend" in trouble. That way, you can confront whomever spoke to your son about something so inappropriate for his age.
Well, i my self have explained all three of my kids how sex is done. I believe that its better for them to know that its a normal action so they don't start having weird ideas about it like its something so special. And it seems it worked for the other two. It's just he is so weird about a great deal of things. Before this shit about becoming a pornostar which he started approximately a year ago, he was saying he want to become a model (and to think i believed this was bad....). Also about the influence thing; my brother, his uncle talks to them a lot about.... "men talk" but i don't believe he would go as far as putting them watch porno. He's crazy but not that crazy. And i have asked him a lot of times about it and i always get answears like "isn't the point of a job making lots of money easily" or "i thought no job is a shame, is it" he even told me once that i should be proud he wants to make us rich and if i had a better job it would be better for all of us. This kid sure is a pain in the ass!
Man-talks are for men. Watch over your son carefully, if he starts showing signs of sexual abuse then you may need to stop giving your brother the benefit of the doubt.
Come on seriously! My brother is a good guy. He may be anoying sometimes, and say things to them i don't completelly agree with but he definately loves his nephews like they were his kids. It's just that boys prefer discussing things like girls they like and that stuff with men than women. Plus uncles are usually more cool with those conversation than parents, i don't think that's something abnormal. Plus if he was bad influence my two other kids would be affected too. Trust me, if you knew my son you wouldn't worry much about being abused by anyone, more like the opposite.....
IIN that my son says he wants to become a pornostar?
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He's serious, unfortunately.
What you should be worried about is how he was exposed to porn, and when he finds enough time to watch it to the point of wanting to become a pornstar. Also, who explained to him that those are just actors and not real sex like how most children grow up believing when they first watch porn. I know it's alarming your son wants to be in the porn industry, but at least it's a job, and being 10 he may change his mind later if something else interest him (so don't be so hard on him or force him to change).
However, you need to find who told him all this information and encouraging him to be a pornstar, because this doesn't just happen over night, it was influenced; make sure your son isn't getting molested or something by someone older whether it be family or school staff and whatnot. Try being enthusiastic about his plans and ask how he thought of it, and who showed him how the industry works, making seem like giving you this information wont get him or his "friend" in trouble. That way, you can confront whomever spoke to your son about something so inappropriate for his age.
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Well, i my self have explained all three of my kids how sex is done. I believe that its better for them to know that its a normal action so they don't start having weird ideas about it like its something so special. And it seems it worked for the other two. It's just he is so weird about a great deal of things. Before this shit about becoming a pornostar which he started approximately a year ago, he was saying he want to become a model (and to think i believed this was bad....). Also about the influence thing; my brother, his uncle talks to them a lot about.... "men talk" but i don't believe he would go as far as putting them watch porno. He's crazy but not that crazy. And i have asked him a lot of times about it and i always get answears like "isn't the point of a job making lots of money easily" or "i thought no job is a shame, is it" he even told me once that i should be proud he wants to make us rich and if i had a better job it would be better for all of us. This kid sure is a pain in the ass!
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Man-talks are for men. Watch over your son carefully, if he starts showing signs of sexual abuse then you may need to stop giving your brother the benefit of the doubt.
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Come on seriously! My brother is a good guy. He may be anoying sometimes, and say things to them i don't completelly agree with but he definately loves his nephews like they were his kids. It's just that boys prefer discussing things like girls they like and that stuff with men than women. Plus uncles are usually more cool with those conversation than parents, i don't think that's something abnormal. Plus if he was bad influence my two other kids would be affected too. Trust me, if you knew my son you wouldn't worry much about being abused by anyone, more like the opposite.....