Is it normal that my sister manipulate my mother

Around one year ago my sister and mother stopped speaking to me since I broke the trust that was between us by doing something, however this isn't about the topic that I wanted to talk about. During the time that we weren't speaking i realized how manipulative my sister is and how she manipulates my mother without her realizing and I keep telling my mom that she is manipulating her decisions and the way she think and how she makes my mother depend on her with LITERALLY EVERYTHING AND EVERY CHOICE. My mother treats her differently than the rest of us its like my mom is her daughter and she's the mother. Im so sick of it. I can't wait to leave this toxic house or fucking die in a car accident. She gives my sister all the freedom she wants and doesn't do the same w us + she keeps convincing my mom that I didn't change from my The thought of death doesn't leave my head.

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  • olderdude-xx

    Most families have one child who manipulates one if not both of the parents..

    Totally normal; and there is virtually nothing you can do to affect it.

    I suggest that you just move on and build a solid and better life that does not depend on your family.

    I have 7 brothers and sisters. I only talk much and do things with 1 of them. I can casually meet and do simple things with a few others. Several are by mutual choice only someone we see at larger family gatherings or events (funerals or weddings) every few years.

    I'm the one who ended up providing all of the final years care to my parents - even though 3 others were closer and in better financial and time positions than I was.

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  • jrbsportz

    Dude just go on with whats happening soon you be able to be on your own second dont think like that death is a permanent action for a temporary problem don't cut your self short and talk with someone about your thoughts please!!! Just saying

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