Is it normal that my sexual desire is higher than my boyf?

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I am 20 and he is a bit older than me. He is my first sexual partner, and so to him. we started to make love about 1 and a 1/2 year ago. At first I was scared and I dislike making love with my boyf.

Slowly, i got to enjoy the whole process and had a frequent sex, at least 5 a week. Sometimes it just seems not enough for me, we had twice a day (1-2 hour time gap). There's a few time that we had 3 in a day. It's tiring, but I enjoyed it. (we hardly go for 3 nowadays.)

Most of the time I initiate for it. I just love making love with him. I often thought that I was kind of addicted t sex, I discuss with my boyf, and we decided t cut down the number sex and try not t have it so frequent, and we even stop for a few days. But I can't help it. The desire get stronger and stronger. 4-7 days Is my max to control it(if I'm on a 'werewolf' mode.) 8 out of 10 is the ratio that its me who start t seducing part. I don't know if this should be called as sex addict.

I'm not liddat all the time, sometimes when the mood is right, I get addicted for a period like 2-3 weeks

But sometimes when I'm on a off mode, we can don make love for 1-2 weeks( mayb once or twice), we stay on the bed and watch tv/movies for long hours or doing our thing without any sexual thoughts.

Is it normal for girls to like making love more than guys? Because I always thought that it's guy who enjoy it and they love making love more than girls.

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  • Appleflesh
    12 years ago | pl

    Never met a girl that wanted it more then me. You are rare. My relationship I always initiated the act. Gets boring when a girl has no sex drive/little. I wonder how wet you stay cause a lot of girls dry up after their first orgasm.

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  • mohmmed
    12 years ago | pl

    Wow your.. bf ..Lucky

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  • tenshii
    12 years ago | pl

    I guess it's normal.

    Well on a general basis, girls DO have more pleasure in sex. We have 3 things to arouse. And men only has 2.

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    • 343Boy
      12 years ago | pl

      Prostate, testicles, penis, nipples - men have more than two.

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago | pl

    It is normal for many like you, but for every one like you, there is at least twice that many men that want it more!

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  • MiszNii
    12 years ago | pl

    yessssss I love having sex but my sex drive & my bf's are the same he only turned me down once :( but other than that I iniciate sex about 80% of the time . we had sex 7times in 2days put together. you're pretty normal I guess , cause I'm normal !

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  • sparrowfeed
    12 years ago | pl

    oh yes, women have great sex IF AND ONLY IF the man is willing to pleasure her properly..

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  • florencexo
    12 years ago | pl

    you just have a very healthy libido you arent an addict, you just love sex, lots of people do you are totally normal

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  • StarTeddy
    12 years ago | pl

    It's quite fine...you can even have sex every day for the rest of your life and you'd still be normal.

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  • Vcek
    12 years ago | pl

    I guess its fine, but im worried about the frequency of doing it, should be limited down to prevent long-term problems.

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  • mumbum
    12 years ago | pl

    @Tenshii... What are the three things? I am so curious..:)

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  • FocoUS
    12 years ago | pl

    You're new to it. There's a term for people like you. Young and horny.

    Point is you're normal

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  • Tiddy
    12 years ago | pl

    Lemun- Totally agree. Haha, true true! to be truth, Im actually glad that he isn't a horndog guy and in a relationship, sex isn't a thing he's thinking about all the time and like u say, sometimes it's kinda frustrating when we dint always get wad we want hahahaha. I get over frustration very fast, but the horndog of me came the very next day with him. Haha.

    Ramit10- wow! I haven tried 9times in 2 days period. Must be exhausting! I had once or twices had 9times in 4-5days period. Afterward we had a 1 week rest haha.

    Anganders112- wow, u seems like the party type ((: I've nvr tried ecstasy. For me, a cup of ice wine is enough have my face blushing red and my neck and body, it works as an ecstasy for me. Haha.

    Tehboss- now that I know im not the only one haha.

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  • Tehboss
    12 years ago | pl

    baby come at me i will make you happy =D
    and sure it's normal some people have a higher sex drive then others

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  • Ramit10
    12 years ago | pl

    Its normal my ex was like that every time we got alone we had sex. There was times on the weekend where we would have sex 9 times in a 2 day period

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  • lemun
    12 years ago | pl

    Haha! Totally understand. Sometimes I feel like maybe something's up with me if my boyfriend doesn't accept sex from me all the time.. but that never seems to be the case. He's just not a horndog xD A lot of girls would probably appreciate a guy like that, but sometimes it's just frustrating haha

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  • lemun
    12 years ago | pl

    I think we're twins... lol. Same goes for my relationship. In that aspect, I always feel like the guy. It's a bummer, but I wouldn't consider it out of the norm. There are just some dudes out there that aren't always in the mood hahaha.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago | pl

    I just slip a little ecstasy into their food and after thirty mins or so, we're all ready to go!

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