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We were on a two day getaway and a men's resort. We were in the jacuzzi with 2 other guys. We usually let guys watch us but have never allowed them to touch. Last night as we were making out he asked the other two guys to suck my dick. I told him no but he got pretty forceful about it. After a while I just went ahead with it but feel now like it was completely wrong. We're engaged and this changes a lot. Thoughts?
It's never okay for your partner to put you in that position and in a way he allowed these other guys to rape you.
For me, things like this isn't abnorm or strange, it can be really hot with the right people but both of you NEED to be aboard with it.
You obviously wish to have a monogamous relationship with your boyfriend ONLY whilst he would like to have something more.
You both need to talk.
It's not normal.
"he got pretty forceful about it"
"After a while I just went ahead with it but feel now like it was completely wrong"
It's unusual to be in a monogamous relationship and have one party request you engage in sexual activity with other people. Even more unusual to be pressured into it. You shouldn't be a doormat, stand up for yourself. If you're not happy to do something, don't do it.