Wowsers, I didn't wan't to bring DSM-IV into it because people are often offended when they feel you analyze them or their loved ones but you hit the nail on the head. Passive aggressive is right. I smell a touch of jealousy in there also. I also see that narcissistic personality shinning through. She was upset about not being at the graduation and somehow made it about her, how dismayed she was, hurt she was, offended she was. when she hadn't spoken to you in years and placed her men before your well being. I still feel that you need to haul her butt to counseling because it will only give way to another situation in which she feels "justified" in her behavior because no one is telling her it's wrong. As for your book and graduation I'm proud of you! You should mentor because there's so many young people who go through this and give up! Your story is hope. The next time Mommy Dearest is upset and attempts to make your success about her let her know that you aren't where you are because of what she did for you but in spite of what she did to you.
So true. Apparently, analyzing people using all of your psych knowledge, as I'm sometimes prone to do, is socially destructive. So I try not to do it. If someone asks for your advice or pays you for your advice it's OK.
IIN that my parents ignored it when I ran away from home at 16?
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Wowsers, I didn't wan't to bring DSM-IV into it because people are often offended when they feel you analyze them or their loved ones but you hit the nail on the head. Passive aggressive is right. I smell a touch of jealousy in there also. I also see that narcissistic personality shinning through. She was upset about not being at the graduation and somehow made it about her, how dismayed she was, hurt she was, offended she was. when she hadn't spoken to you in years and placed her men before your well being. I still feel that you need to haul her butt to counseling because it will only give way to another situation in which she feels "justified" in her behavior because no one is telling her it's wrong. As for your book and graduation I'm proud of you! You should mentor because there's so many young people who go through this and give up! Your story is hope. The next time Mommy Dearest is upset and attempts to make your success about her let her know that you aren't where you are because of what she did for you but in spite of what she did to you.
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So true. Apparently, analyzing people using all of your psych knowledge, as I'm sometimes prone to do, is socially destructive. So I try not to do it. If someone asks for your advice or pays you for your advice it's OK.