i cant advise you on the Philippines since i have never lived or even visited there.
if its not religion then it would just be something else the parents used to control their children...just saying. if it wasnt religion then you would be complaining of whatever else it was...something for you to think about.
but in their very strict faith Jesus is watching you...
i dont think they are trying to put god against the child or anything like that...i think it would stem from a fear of going to hell. They dont want you to go there ether. Since they are so strict this could be another reason.
what you are doing is listing the kind of christian house you wish you grew up in. Wishing your parents did it this way... this is a list of perfect parents...
something you will never find. and i doubt anyone would do all these all the time with their child.
you need to stop wishing what your parents could or should be like...and deal with what they are. you have recognized the problem yourself...thats good. now you need to fix it yourself. you are still an adult and in your own way you can change some things on your own. YOU need to make YOU a better person.
you have internet access use it to further your knowledge.
Is it normal that my parents downgrading me?
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i cant advise you on the Philippines since i have never lived or even visited there.
if its not religion then it would just be something else the parents used to control their children...just saying. if it wasnt religion then you would be complaining of whatever else it was...something for you to think about.
but in their very strict faith Jesus is watching you...
i dont think they are trying to put god against the child or anything like that...i think it would stem from a fear of going to hell. They dont want you to go there ether. Since they are so strict this could be another reason.
what you are doing is listing the kind of christian house you wish you grew up in. Wishing your parents did it this way... this is a list of perfect parents...
something you will never find. and i doubt anyone would do all these all the time with their child.
you need to stop wishing what your parents could or should be like...and deal with what they are. you have recognized the problem yourself...thats good. now you need to fix it yourself. you are still an adult and in your own way you can change some things on your own. YOU need to make YOU a better person.
you have internet access use it to further your knowledge.