If she was just unresponsive then I'd say it might just be because she's socially anxious, but asking/expecting you to pay for stuff is a red flag. She could be taking advantage of you. I wouldn't jump to this conclusion though. She could still be socially anxious, which would explain her aloofness, and then she could just be traditional with regards to dating and expects the man to pay, which would explain that. If that's the case then she could still be alright, but you should explain that you shouldn't have to pay for everything. It'd be awkward, but honesty is a healthier way to go about it than feeling annoyed because you're being treated unfairly.
Is it normal that my new friend did this?
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If she was just unresponsive then I'd say it might just be because she's socially anxious, but asking/expecting you to pay for stuff is a red flag. She could be taking advantage of you. I wouldn't jump to this conclusion though. She could still be socially anxious, which would explain her aloofness, and then she could just be traditional with regards to dating and expects the man to pay, which would explain that. If that's the case then she could still be alright, but you should explain that you shouldn't have to pay for everything. It'd be awkward, but honesty is a healthier way to go about it than feeling annoyed because you're being treated unfairly.