Honestly I believe there is a performance issue. He had trouble getting fully aroused last time we were sexual. :-/ he tells me how beautiful I am & that he desires me immensely. But then....nothing happens when we are in bed together. I feel so rejected :(
That's what I suspected but don't give up hope yet . I think he should cut out masturbation if he does and just focus on your intimacy when it occurs . If he is out of shape , this can affect his sexual performance but also talk to him and see what he might be able to come up with as a reason .. maybe he has a fetish he is not mentioning . A lot of people with a fetish will not get off without it being present or performed . I think consulting a doctor might also be an option to see his testosterone levels and things of that nature! it could be a simple deficiency or something going on . He could have a lot on his mind .. there are many factors so just try a few avenues and see what happens then re assess things .
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Honestly I believe there is a performance issue. He had trouble getting fully aroused last time we were sexual. :-/ he tells me how beautiful I am & that he desires me immensely. But then....nothing happens when we are in bed together. I feel so rejected :(
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That's what I suspected but don't give up hope yet . I think he should cut out masturbation if he does and just focus on your intimacy when it occurs . If he is out of shape , this can affect his sexual performance but also talk to him and see what he might be able to come up with as a reason .. maybe he has a fetish he is not mentioning . A lot of people with a fetish will not get off without it being present or performed . I think consulting a doctor might also be an option to see his testosterone levels and things of that nature! it could be a simple deficiency or something going on . He could have a lot on his mind .. there are many factors so just try a few avenues and see what happens then re assess things .