Ah, my mother did this for a while. It's a weird way to control you basically; as in there's nothing you can do or go that's out of her reach, and if you do you get berated as punishment. No one likes to hear/read this, but it's emotional abuse to put it simply. Abuse doesn't have to be so dramatic, but just irrational shit like this that can drive a person crazy.
Have a talk with her (it probably wont help, but give it a try anyway just for the sake of trying). Tell her that you're a growing young man, and you need some privacy, especially in the bathroom. If she gets upset, lock the bathroom door anyway, even put a sign saying, "Mom, respect my privacy please," on the outside every time you're using it. It'll make her mad, and you'll get yelled at a lot, but you're standing up to her craziness; you're growing up and she needs to learn that.
Essentially this. If things still don't work out after talking things over, let her catch you masturbating in the bathroom. You can guarantee she wont invade your privacy as often, regardless if the door is locked or not.
IIN that my mum won't let me lock the bathroom door?
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Ah, my mother did this for a while. It's a weird way to control you basically; as in there's nothing you can do or go that's out of her reach, and if you do you get berated as punishment. No one likes to hear/read this, but it's emotional abuse to put it simply. Abuse doesn't have to be so dramatic, but just irrational shit like this that can drive a person crazy.
Have a talk with her (it probably wont help, but give it a try anyway just for the sake of trying). Tell her that you're a growing young man, and you need some privacy, especially in the bathroom. If she gets upset, lock the bathroom door anyway, even put a sign saying, "Mom, respect my privacy please," on the outside every time you're using it. It'll make her mad, and you'll get yelled at a lot, but you're standing up to her craziness; you're growing up and she needs to learn that.
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Essentially this. If things still don't work out after talking things over, let her catch you masturbating in the bathroom. You can guarantee she wont invade your privacy as often, regardless if the door is locked or not.
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I love your name, makes me want to read the manga all over again. lol
I agree. She has control of the house, many parents do this to make sure you can't hide or keep anything private from them
I agree well said!