Well, I don't know the whole story and I never will but honestly, you don't sound mentally stable.
Buying babies toys and spoiling them isn't enough and I don't know enough about your parenting skills to tell you whether or not you're a good Mom and no, thinking you're a good Mom and "trying your best" isn't enough to qualify. If caring was enough, then our foster care systems wouldn't be so loaded down and child abuse wouldn't be so common. Most parents care about their children, but they don't care enough about themselves and that's the problem. You can't care for a child unless you are caring your yourself!
You need to get mental help. You need to get yourself together. Honey, if you can't take care of yourself, what makes you think you can take care of a baby? You are not stable, you probably don't have a job and even if you do, with the mental state you're at, you couldn't convince me, at this point, that you are mentally stable enough and stable enough in your life to be able to raise a baby. They're not dogs or cats, they're human beings and I'm sure you've probably figured this out the hard way by now.
Stop fighting for a while. Being in the mental state you're in will NOT help you and it will NOT CONVINCE ANYONE that you're IN ANY WAY READY to raise a baby. You need to relax, you need to get off the computer, go to bed, wake up, go to work, go to school, clean your house, whatever you're doing, clear your head and get mental help.
I'm not interested in knowing the personal details of your life because I know what I am saying is right and true, despite any personal details you need to focus on YOUR SANITY before you can even THINK ABOUT trying to help your child. If he's being fed and cared for, then leave him at that and work on yourself. Otherwise, that baby will stay gone and you'll stay MISERABLE.
If you can't provide a stable life for yourself, then you can't provide one for your baby and that's what your baby needs. Do what's best for yourself and do what's best for your baby, otherwise, you can't consider yourself fit to raise him. I know it sounds horrible and harsh of me, but you need to work on your life before you can take the kind of responsibility you need to for another innocent life.
Ur really disrespectful you I've done parenting classes as asked done apointments as asked and even got a new place for us to live and have got everything that I need I'm not mental I'm just human a human loves they're child a dog doesn't understand of 1 if I looked after him kept him clean and fed him had him in a routine unlike now he's not at a stable place in life like he used to be
There was no disrespect meant, you chose to take it that way. Don't take this the wrong way but you need to work on your typing skills. I can not understand what your saying, I can only make out small bits and pieces.
You're the one telling us you haven't slept and that you're flipping shit. I've taken parenting classes too, I have a place to live as well, but those things don't mean that I would make a good parents and they don't mean the same for you either. You really need to calm down and try to figure yourself out.
If you did parenting classes you would have to be a parent to get in and you would have to do them a certain amount of time so your a total wanna be liar so take your jelousy some where else
is it normal that my mum wants to keep my son and have him taken away
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Well, I don't know the whole story and I never will but honestly, you don't sound mentally stable.
Buying babies toys and spoiling them isn't enough and I don't know enough about your parenting skills to tell you whether or not you're a good Mom and no, thinking you're a good Mom and "trying your best" isn't enough to qualify. If caring was enough, then our foster care systems wouldn't be so loaded down and child abuse wouldn't be so common. Most parents care about their children, but they don't care enough about themselves and that's the problem. You can't care for a child unless you are caring your yourself!
You need to get mental help. You need to get yourself together. Honey, if you can't take care of yourself, what makes you think you can take care of a baby? You are not stable, you probably don't have a job and even if you do, with the mental state you're at, you couldn't convince me, at this point, that you are mentally stable enough and stable enough in your life to be able to raise a baby. They're not dogs or cats, they're human beings and I'm sure you've probably figured this out the hard way by now.
Stop fighting for a while. Being in the mental state you're in will NOT help you and it will NOT CONVINCE ANYONE that you're IN ANY WAY READY to raise a baby. You need to relax, you need to get off the computer, go to bed, wake up, go to work, go to school, clean your house, whatever you're doing, clear your head and get mental help.
I'm not interested in knowing the personal details of your life because I know what I am saying is right and true, despite any personal details you need to focus on YOUR SANITY before you can even THINK ABOUT trying to help your child. If he's being fed and cared for, then leave him at that and work on yourself. Otherwise, that baby will stay gone and you'll stay MISERABLE.
If you can't provide a stable life for yourself, then you can't provide one for your baby and that's what your baby needs. Do what's best for yourself and do what's best for your baby, otherwise, you can't consider yourself fit to raise him. I know it sounds horrible and harsh of me, but you need to work on your life before you can take the kind of responsibility you need to for another innocent life.
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Ur really disrespectful you I've done parenting classes as asked done apointments as asked and even got a new place for us to live and have got everything that I need I'm not mental I'm just human a human loves they're child a dog doesn't understand of 1 if I looked after him kept him clean and fed him had him in a routine unlike now he's not at a stable place in life like he used to be
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There was no disrespect meant, you chose to take it that way. Don't take this the wrong way but you need to work on your typing skills. I can not understand what your saying, I can only make out small bits and pieces.
You're the one telling us you haven't slept and that you're flipping shit. I've taken parenting classes too, I have a place to live as well, but those things don't mean that I would make a good parents and they don't mean the same for you either. You really need to calm down and try to figure yourself out.
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If you did parenting classes you would have to be a parent to get in and you would have to do them a certain amount of time so your a total wanna be liar so take your jelousy some where else