At this point you either have to a) physically constrain her from coming to the delivery or b) yell at her.
At this point it's beyond being rude. She is literally just neglecting your feelings which is extremely rude, a lot more rude than asking for some privacy. This is not her just wanting to be there, she is imposing herself. You've already spoken to her once and probably should again, so yes you should be not just upset but actually angry. Do whatever you need to do to explain to her how rude she is and how YOURE demanding that she not be there. If she goes against your wishes, she obviously does not respect you and that is another problem on its own.
Is it normal that my mother-in-law invited herself to my delivery?
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At this point you either have to a) physically constrain her from coming to the delivery or b) yell at her.
At this point it's beyond being rude. She is literally just neglecting your feelings which is extremely rude, a lot more rude than asking for some privacy. This is not her just wanting to be there, she is imposing herself. You've already spoken to her once and probably should again, so yes you should be not just upset but actually angry. Do whatever you need to do to explain to her how rude she is and how YOURE demanding that she not be there. If she goes against your wishes, she obviously does not respect you and that is another problem on its own.