I know that mothers tend to be harder on their daughters and fathers harder on their sons (seen it first hand in my own family), but this is much more like abuse. Escpecially damning is that she hides it from your dad.
I would also say you should tell someone. But there might be problems with that. She already hides it from your dad which suggests she will simply deny that it happens and that you're lying. Which is just another way for her to put you down and belittle you. She would probably enjoy that actually as it discredits you in front of everyone else.
I suggest getting some evidence that she can't deny. A recording either video or audio. Anything that documents what is really going on. Then when you have it, tell someone about how she is treating you.
I hope things get better for you and you get to a point where you can smile.
is it normal that my mother hates me
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I know that mothers tend to be harder on their daughters and fathers harder on their sons (seen it first hand in my own family), but this is much more like abuse. Escpecially damning is that she hides it from your dad.
I would also say you should tell someone. But there might be problems with that. She already hides it from your dad which suggests she will simply deny that it happens and that you're lying. Which is just another way for her to put you down and belittle you. She would probably enjoy that actually as it discredits you in front of everyone else.
I suggest getting some evidence that she can't deny. A recording either video or audio. Anything that documents what is really going on. Then when you have it, tell someone about how she is treating you.
I hope things get better for you and you get to a point where you can smile.