Absolutely not normal, nor acceptable. Someone needs to take care of your mother. And I don't mean in the treatment sense, but more so the mafia put her feet in concrete and throw her in the ocean kind of "taking care of her".
If I were you I would find someone who you can live with.
Your mother clearly has some form of serious mental disorder. She stabbed your father? Did you really have to ask if that was normal?
I really hope you find a good place to live. And when you do, if you have any common sense at all, you will never speak to her again. Who cares if she gave birth to you. That doesn't give someone life time immunity for what they do.
My mom doesn't physically best anyone anymore. So she's not that bad she's just controlling and emotionally abusive. And I wasn't asking if stabbing someone was normal I was asking if its normal for me to be 18 and her still trying to control everything in my,life
I thought you said your mother stabbed your father? When you said something like.. "I saw my father get stabbed" I had just assumed it was your mother. I also assumed you were asking if all of the stuff you were typing was normal, and that one stood out the most to me.
It sounds like older age has calmed your mom down a bit, which is normal, but it really sounds like she's bipolar or something.
Has she ever been to therapy?
If you love her, and she's not beyond reason, try sitting her down, telling her you love her, and you're worried about her.
If she's religious, try to appeal to that in her. Tell her "I'm concerned for your soul" or whatever religious people say. Sorry to be so flat out about things, but with stuff like this you can't beat around the bush, you just have to address it, no matter how painful it is.
No she did Stab my dad numerous times im just saying she's not physically abusive anymore. My moms a different story when you try to talk to her about those things she just denys them and gets angry
is it normal that my moms like this?
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Absolutely not normal, nor acceptable. Someone needs to take care of your mother. And I don't mean in the treatment sense, but more so the mafia put her feet in concrete and throw her in the ocean kind of "taking care of her".
If I were you I would find someone who you can live with.
Your mother clearly has some form of serious mental disorder. She stabbed your father? Did you really have to ask if that was normal?
I really hope you find a good place to live. And when you do, if you have any common sense at all, you will never speak to her again. Who cares if she gave birth to you. That doesn't give someone life time immunity for what they do.
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My mom doesn't physically best anyone anymore. So she's not that bad she's just controlling and emotionally abusive. And I wasn't asking if stabbing someone was normal I was asking if its normal for me to be 18 and her still trying to control everything in my,life
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I thought you said your mother stabbed your father? When you said something like.. "I saw my father get stabbed" I had just assumed it was your mother. I also assumed you were asking if all of the stuff you were typing was normal, and that one stood out the most to me.
It sounds like older age has calmed your mom down a bit, which is normal, but it really sounds like she's bipolar or something.
Has she ever been to therapy?
If you love her, and she's not beyond reason, try sitting her down, telling her you love her, and you're worried about her.
If she's religious, try to appeal to that in her. Tell her "I'm concerned for your soul" or whatever religious people say. Sorry to be so flat out about things, but with stuff like this you can't beat around the bush, you just have to address it, no matter how painful it is.
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No she did Stab my dad numerous times im just saying she's not physically abusive anymore. My moms a different story when you try to talk to her about those things she just denys them and gets angry
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Yeah then I'd say sever ties with her once you're on your own. You don't need that kind of negative energy bringing you down all the time.