You know maybe I'm heartless or just emotionless, but just be straight with her. I don't get how someone could have fear over another, but who cares, even if she is your parent the only way you're ever going to solve this type of issue is if you take it into your own hands and tell her how you feel. I went through the same situation, but it was my always drunken father in law and my seemingly blind mother, but you know what? I was seventeen and after two years of living with them and all the bull I went through, I simply couldn't take it anymore, one day my father in law came home ready to beat me since I was practically the only one with enough balls to take him on and well... that time I wasn't in the mood for it and I beat him almost to death for breaking my only true family, my fish tank. Then my mother finally came home and we sat and talked like adults for once and I was finally able to get her to open her damn eyes and see who he truly was, yet of course with my bad luck I was kicked out the house and disowned. Yet I was happy for I was finally through with them, six years later I got a call and it was some police department saying about how my family was dead. My mom was beat to death, my father in law was stabbed and died from bleeding, my little brother killed himself (I don't know how they found this out, hand prints on the knife I guess?), and apparently my little sister was never found. My point, hopefully you'll never have to go through a situation like I did, but as you see I would of probably ended up dead if I didn't leave that house eventually. Every problem has a solution and it's about time you solve your own miss, if anything I've learned over the years, no issue will be solved by itself. You must take it into your own hands if you ever want your situation to change for the better or the worst. Which, life will decide, but it's your decision to make the change. Good luck, and I hope my life story helped you in anyway possible (if you even bothered to read it).
Omg that's rough. I'm so sorry that happened to you. Your right I should stand up to her and I would after I find a place to stay because she will probley try to hurt me
I thought your mom wasn't physically abusive anymore? It makes sense though to wait till you have another home to be in. I can tell you that being homeless sucks, REALLY sucks to be frank. Back when I was eighteen I don't think I ate till a month or so after getting disowned. I had to sleep on a bench close to work and had to keep a close eye on my wallet, it's good though that people didn't usually mess with a guy like me back then. Not saying anyone is stupid enough to mess with me now, yet I don't know if I was intimidating or what, but safety back then wasn't so much a concern after I got use to taking care of myself.
is it normal that my moms like this?
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You know maybe I'm heartless or just emotionless, but just be straight with her. I don't get how someone could have fear over another, but who cares, even if she is your parent the only way you're ever going to solve this type of issue is if you take it into your own hands and tell her how you feel. I went through the same situation, but it was my always drunken father in law and my seemingly blind mother, but you know what? I was seventeen and after two years of living with them and all the bull I went through, I simply couldn't take it anymore, one day my father in law came home ready to beat me since I was practically the only one with enough balls to take him on and well... that time I wasn't in the mood for it and I beat him almost to death for breaking my only true family, my fish tank. Then my mother finally came home and we sat and talked like adults for once and I was finally able to get her to open her damn eyes and see who he truly was, yet of course with my bad luck I was kicked out the house and disowned. Yet I was happy for I was finally through with them, six years later I got a call and it was some police department saying about how my family was dead. My mom was beat to death, my father in law was stabbed and died from bleeding, my little brother killed himself (I don't know how they found this out, hand prints on the knife I guess?), and apparently my little sister was never found. My point, hopefully you'll never have to go through a situation like I did, but as you see I would of probably ended up dead if I didn't leave that house eventually. Every problem has a solution and it's about time you solve your own miss, if anything I've learned over the years, no issue will be solved by itself. You must take it into your own hands if you ever want your situation to change for the better or the worst. Which, life will decide, but it's your decision to make the change. Good luck, and I hope my life story helped you in anyway possible (if you even bothered to read it).
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Have u found a publisher for your book?
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Haha, wish I had. Probably make good cash off of it, but till then I hope you liked the summary of my childhood.
Omg that's rough. I'm so sorry that happened to you. Your right I should stand up to her and I would after I find a place to stay because she will probley try to hurt me
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I thought your mom wasn't physically abusive anymore? It makes sense though to wait till you have another home to be in. I can tell you that being homeless sucks, REALLY sucks to be frank. Back when I was eighteen I don't think I ate till a month or so after getting disowned. I had to sleep on a bench close to work and had to keep a close eye on my wallet, it's good though that people didn't usually mess with a guy like me back then. Not saying anyone is stupid enough to mess with me now, yet I don't know if I was intimidating or what, but safety back then wasn't so much a concern after I got use to taking care of myself.