Yeah but I learned those morals myself. Obviously I dont respect my mom because if I want to do something ill do it. I
Party and still have guy friends and my mom wouldn't let me do that. But I'm still a virgin and stuff because I want to be not because my mom said to be. Not from just learning from her mistakes but I also learned from ppl at school and I decided who I wanna be and I decided I wanted respect.
mom was a slut when she was younger and she did drugs and she's an alcoholic still. So saying my mom raised me is inaccurate. I raised myself. I always did things for myself all my mom did was cook and the food wasnt with her money and clean but I still did alot of the cleaning. I guess I matured faster because I had to learn to be their for myself and she made me feel like I never wanted to be used ever again because she uses us to get money from the government and she makes us do anything for her. All she taught me is I never wanna be like her.
She's not physically abusive anymore but she's emotionally. I think if I crossed the line she wouldn't hesitate to beat me though
I'm sorry about your situation, and for misinterpreting.
The good news is you persevered through all of that and you are a good, responsible person despite your mom. Stay that way and someday you will be able to tell her to kiss your ass because you are going to be a better person than her and, should you have children, a better parent.
However, I still can't help but feel that deep down that is what she wants, for you to be better and more responsible than she was.
Yeah I belive that is part of it but she's doing it in the wrong way. She wants to control us and instill fear in our mind into being the way she wants
is it normal that my moms like this?
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Yeah but I learned those morals myself. Obviously I dont respect my mom because if I want to do something ill do it. I
Party and still have guy friends and my mom wouldn't let me do that. But I'm still a virgin and stuff because I want to be not because my mom said to be. Not from just learning from her mistakes but I also learned from ppl at school and I decided who I wanna be and I decided I wanted respect.
mom was a slut when she was younger and she did drugs and she's an alcoholic still. So saying my mom raised me is inaccurate. I raised myself. I always did things for myself all my mom did was cook and the food wasnt with her money and clean but I still did alot of the cleaning. I guess I matured faster because I had to learn to be their for myself and she made me feel like I never wanted to be used ever again because she uses us to get money from the government and she makes us do anything for her. All she taught me is I never wanna be like her.
She's not physically abusive anymore but she's emotionally. I think if I crossed the line she wouldn't hesitate to beat me though
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I'm sorry about your situation, and for misinterpreting.
The good news is you persevered through all of that and you are a good, responsible person despite your mom. Stay that way and someday you will be able to tell her to kiss your ass because you are going to be a better person than her and, should you have children, a better parent.
However, I still can't help but feel that deep down that is what she wants, for you to be better and more responsible than she was.
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Yeah I belive that is part of it but she's doing it in the wrong way. She wants to control us and instill fear in our mind into being the way she wants