Under no circumstances whatsoever would that be considered normal! Never contact this woman again!
She comes from the south? Apparently, southern people have this perverted tradition to look at your boobs/feel you up when you're going through puberty.
My mother told me that her aunt felt her up and was telling her breasts were really growing. She told her mother, but she defended her sister and said that it was normal!
When, I was younger I remember there were times when that aunt was look very long at my growing boobies and once she even got her other sisters and my grandmother, to talk about my breasts and size. I can't remember what I did, but I know I was embarrassed and they got angry at me for it. They were also angry at the fact I cross-dress and like to wear lose shirts and how they could really see my breasts!
Mind you, I got my period at nine. So, I had to have been pretty young at the time. I remember a few years later, I was at that aunts house and she stopped and told me to uncross my arms so she could get a good look at me. I did and to my horror she spent an hour or so, commenting on my breasts through my loose shirt. I think I told my grandmother, but she didn't care and said that it was normal. Those people were always making comments about my body.
Perhaps, this is one of the reasons why I hate them so? It's all very traumatizing.
I'm sorry you had to go through that. Your mother is a sick person.....
Wow Avant seriously? Maybe you know where I am coming from and yes, woman from the south do comment on your body. Like hips and chest size. Like I said if what I described seems vulgar like "taciturn" said then maybe it was and that's the answer I need. I did see it as vulgar. My friends don't do that when the hug. It's real quick , pat, and go. But it was like she was going out of her way to press up on me there was no room between us, too close and very uncomfortable. Yeah she's my mom but mother have issues too. Yes, she is from the south and I think that women do have some perverted thing about breast.
When, I usually hug my friends, it's very quick. Sometimes, I hug closer friends for much longer. We'll hug very close, but there's nothing "sexual" about it.
A relative of mine has a tendency to rub my hair and go all the way down my back and stop almost on my ass. It really creeps me out. She first did it when I was some years younger and eventually I told her she needed to stop. But occasionally, she does it again! It seriously freaks me out! None of my friends have done it. I do have a friend with a supposed "hair fetish" and when my hair was longer she used to touch it all the way down my back. It made me uncomfortable, but she never got near my ass....
As she is her daughter she must be from south too does this mean she is a pervert too. just asking. and i feel sorry for you i don't know why but i do.
It seems to be a custom among older people from the deep south....
Just because she's from the south or her mother is southern doesn't mean that she's a pervert. She said that her mother was mentally ill so, this could have also contributed.
Your "feeling sorry for me" is it in a negative light because of your misinterpretation or is it in a more positive feeling? A "positive feeling" because you truly feel sorry for the traumatic experiences in my life?
Just cause I'm her daughter doesn't mean I'm from the south. She is from the deeper south, had a very different upbringing and childhood from me, and I went to military schools on military bases,more east south than deep south, my dad was military and mainly from the east coast midatlantic. For example N. Carolina to me is different from GA, AL, MI, LA which I think is deeper south than NC and VA. I also moved north at an early age so no I do not think like that. I am not perverted and would never hug my daughter or neices like that.
Is it normal that my mom rubbed herself up against my chest?
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Under no circumstances whatsoever would that be considered normal! Never contact this woman again!
She comes from the south? Apparently, southern people have this perverted tradition to look at your boobs/feel you up when you're going through puberty.
My mother told me that her aunt felt her up and was telling her breasts were really growing. She told her mother, but she defended her sister and said that it was normal!
When, I was younger I remember there were times when that aunt was look very long at my growing boobies and once she even got her other sisters and my grandmother, to talk about my breasts and size. I can't remember what I did, but I know I was embarrassed and they got angry at me for it. They were also angry at the fact I cross-dress and like to wear lose shirts and how they could really see my breasts!
Mind you, I got my period at nine. So, I had to have been pretty young at the time. I remember a few years later, I was at that aunts house and she stopped and told me to uncross my arms so she could get a good look at me. I did and to my horror she spent an hour or so, commenting on my breasts through my loose shirt. I think I told my grandmother, but she didn't care and said that it was normal. Those people were always making comments about my body.
Perhaps, this is one of the reasons why I hate them so? It's all very traumatizing.
I'm sorry you had to go through that. Your mother is a sick person.....
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Wow Avant seriously? Maybe you know where I am coming from and yes, woman from the south do comment on your body. Like hips and chest size. Like I said if what I described seems vulgar like "taciturn" said then maybe it was and that's the answer I need. I did see it as vulgar. My friends don't do that when the hug. It's real quick , pat, and go. But it was like she was going out of her way to press up on me there was no room between us, too close and very uncomfortable. Yeah she's my mom but mother have issues too. Yes, she is from the south and I think that women do have some perverted thing about breast.
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I wish I was joking:/
When, I usually hug my friends, it's very quick. Sometimes, I hug closer friends for much longer. We'll hug very close, but there's nothing "sexual" about it.
A relative of mine has a tendency to rub my hair and go all the way down my back and stop almost on my ass. It really creeps me out. She first did it when I was some years younger and eventually I told her she needed to stop. But occasionally, she does it again! It seriously freaks me out! None of my friends have done it. I do have a friend with a supposed "hair fetish" and when my hair was longer she used to touch it all the way down my back. It made me uncomfortable, but she never got near my ass....
As she is her daughter she must be from south too does this mean she is a pervert too. just asking. and i feel sorry for you i don't know why but i do.
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I think you misinterpreted me:/
It seems to be a custom among older people from the deep south....
Just because she's from the south or her mother is southern doesn't mean that she's a pervert. She said that her mother was mentally ill so, this could have also contributed.
Your "feeling sorry for me" is it in a negative light because of your misinterpretation or is it in a more positive feeling? A "positive feeling" because you truly feel sorry for the traumatic experiences in my life?
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Yes the older people are different and it may be some kind of nasty culture. Plus I am a totally different generation from that.
Just cause I'm her daughter doesn't mean I'm from the south. She is from the deeper south, had a very different upbringing and childhood from me, and I went to military schools on military bases,more east south than deep south, my dad was military and mainly from the east coast midatlantic. For example N. Carolina to me is different from GA, AL, MI, LA which I think is deeper south than NC and VA. I also moved north at an early age so no I do not think like that. I am not perverted and would never hug my daughter or neices like that.