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Whenever I go out for the day she constantly calls me and asks me random questions like what I want to do for dinner or if I'm at home. I understand she wants to know where I am but when I get home she makes it seem like I have been gone for a week and just distance myself from the house then she ends up crying and tells me I'm mean to her and that I don't like her anymore which is insane. Is this normal?
She's a martyr. And she doesn't know what to do without her baby. -call her out for being crazy-and if she says you're being mean to her then I would suggest to start being mean to her to show her the difference----my mom does this too in a way---- just make sure your mama doesn't hold you back, amigo.
Oh my gawd. My mom is just like that only she hasnt cried.. yet. Im sooooo glad im not the only one. this ACTUALLY helped me! Thank you random stranger! Just bite your tounge. Maybe get a family counselor for you two to work out your problems. Thats what I did. If you cant afford it maybe find an adult friend or teacher to talk to. :) I always spill to my home ec teacher
Oh god.. My mom does the same exact thing.. (The crying was more recent though.) I don't do anything and she could complain about all the smallest things and make me angry or feel bad or even both. I think it's just that she is a mommy and she just wants to communicate with you. Perhaps (if there is a lack) you could try to communicate. I, for some reason, can't. So I wouldn't really follow my own advice, but it seems right. Try making her a delicious sandwich. Maybe it would make her happy.. I know it would make me happy.. I LOVE FOOD. YES.. I NEED A TURKEY SANDWICH NOW.. <3