What the fuck?! No, it's not normal and it seems she has trained your sister to do the same. My grandmother used to do this to me and watch me on the toilet if I was "taking too long". I remember she watched me when I was about 9 or 10. I think we were supposed to go to church and I was perfectly capable of bathing myself in privacy. I had closed the curtain and she pulled it back. I tried to close it but she insisted that it was "normal" for families to watch people they were related to bathe. I remember she would stop staring and I think she even "instructed" me how to wash parts of myself and I think she even made me turn to her so she could make sure I did it right.
She did this when I was in my early and part of my mid teens. I remember she opened the curtain and I tried to cover myself. I tried to close the curtain but she ripped it out of my hands. I told her to leave, but that fucking bitch wouldn't stop staring me. Jesus, I swear if you had seen that look on her face and in her eyes you would have been disturbed. She was looking at me like she enjoyed it. I think after that occurrence she had the gull to tell me that my "vagina" was hairy and she never expected to be so hairy. Every time, these later occurrences would happen, I would call her a "pervert". She was so "offended" and she would threatened to punish me. Eventually, that fucking twat got the message and stopped.
I think this is the first time I've told anyone this. I'm shaking and hot/cold with anger. Your mother has no right to do this to you. In fact, no one does without your consent, it's sickening. Tell them to stop or you will either 1. Tell someone with power at your school. 2. Call the Child Hotline or Social Services. or 3. Call the police. That should hopefullyget them to stop. If they are persistent, in the time being, you can try to block the door or take marital arts. Good Luck!
Is it normal that my mom likes to spy on me in the shower?
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What the fuck?! No, it's not normal and it seems she has trained your sister to do the same. My grandmother used to do this to me and watch me on the toilet if I was "taking too long". I remember she watched me when I was about 9 or 10. I think we were supposed to go to church and I was perfectly capable of bathing myself in privacy. I had closed the curtain and she pulled it back. I tried to close it but she insisted that it was "normal" for families to watch people they were related to bathe. I remember she would stop staring and I think she even "instructed" me how to wash parts of myself and I think she even made me turn to her so she could make sure I did it right.
She did this when I was in my early and part of my mid teens. I remember she opened the curtain and I tried to cover myself. I tried to close the curtain but she ripped it out of my hands. I told her to leave, but that fucking bitch wouldn't stop staring me. Jesus, I swear if you had seen that look on her face and in her eyes you would have been disturbed. She was looking at me like she enjoyed it. I think after that occurrence she had the gull to tell me that my "vagina" was hairy and she never expected to be so hairy. Every time, these later occurrences would happen, I would call her a "pervert". She was so "offended" and she would threatened to punish me. Eventually, that fucking twat got the message and stopped.
I think this is the first time I've told anyone this. I'm shaking and hot/cold with anger. Your mother has no right to do this to you. In fact, no one does without your consent, it's sickening. Tell them to stop or you will either 1. Tell someone with power at your school. 2. Call the Child Hotline or Social Services. or 3. Call the police. That should hopefullyget them to stop. If they are persistent, in the time being, you can try to block the door or take marital arts. Good Luck!