Oh don't get me wrong - this other lady was on dozens of tablets a day, and even in and out of hospital quite frequently. It's just that when she was forced to get up, or else starve to death in her bed, she got up! There was no-one to take care of her.
Funnily enough, she was not like that while she and her husband were dating ;o)
If the doctors and psychologists can't get her out of bed, what on earth do you imagine you can do?
Honestly, if I were you, I'd go a lot easier on myself. She is not your responsibility and she should be up caring for you. Some people soldier on and some give up, unfortunately she has chosen to opt out of your family and even society.
You're absolutely right. My mom wasn't so... the way she was when my parents were dating either. At least not to this degree. But you're right. They married because they had me. It was a crazy time in my dads life. I wish it was that easy for him to just leave her. He is a great guy and could do SO much better.
Your mom needs to realise that every single tablet she takes has its own side effects, whether it be digestion problems with her stomach, sleepiness or muscle weakness but all these chemicals are long term poison. As for doctors, they could diagnose a dozen things wrong with every one of us if they so chose!
I hope that she pulls herself together soon but you should pop in to see your dad at his work, if her 'sleepy sickness' is dragging you down! That would really shock her!!
I just go home to visit my Dad. They have separate rooms (my Mom has her living room and my Dad has his living room) so I can spend time with my Dad without spending time with my Mom because they don't have much contact with each other.
I've tried explaining this pharmaceutical mess to her but she contends that I don't understand depression v.v
Is it normal that my Mom is always this sick?
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Oh don't get me wrong - this other lady was on dozens of tablets a day, and even in and out of hospital quite frequently. It's just that when she was forced to get up, or else starve to death in her bed, she got up! There was no-one to take care of her.
Funnily enough, she was not like that while she and her husband were dating ;o)
If the doctors and psychologists can't get her out of bed, what on earth do you imagine you can do?
Honestly, if I were you, I'd go a lot easier on myself. She is not your responsibility and she should be up caring for you. Some people soldier on and some give up, unfortunately she has chosen to opt out of your family and even society.
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You're absolutely right. My mom wasn't so... the way she was when my parents were dating either. At least not to this degree. But you're right. They married because they had me. It was a crazy time in my dads life. I wish it was that easy for him to just leave her. He is a great guy and could do SO much better.
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Aw :o(
Your mom needs to realise that every single tablet she takes has its own side effects, whether it be digestion problems with her stomach, sleepiness or muscle weakness but all these chemicals are long term poison. As for doctors, they could diagnose a dozen things wrong with every one of us if they so chose!
I hope that she pulls herself together soon but you should pop in to see your dad at his work, if her 'sleepy sickness' is dragging you down! That would really shock her!!
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I just go home to visit my Dad. They have separate rooms (my Mom has her living room and my Dad has his living room) so I can spend time with my Dad without spending time with my Mom because they don't have much contact with each other.
I've tried explaining this pharmaceutical mess to her but she contends that I don't understand depression v.v
But I feel like less of an asshole now ^^;